Discouraging Kids from Vandalism on Halloween

Halloween has unfortunately become synonymous with seemingly harmless vandalism. Anyone whose property has been "TP'd" knows there's nothing harmless about it. It takes days to get that mess out of your trees. What was that you just stepped in on the porch? What does that say on your window? You better believe you'll teach your kids not to engage in vandalism on Halloween, even if you did it yourself.

It's probably best not to share that little fact with your kids. Knowing you soaped windows every Halloween won't help you convince your own kids not to. This isn't about you and this isn't the 80's. Halloween pranks can be dangerous for both the prankster and the intended victim. Not everyone reacts to their cars being egged with a smile and fond memories.

Bragging about your childhood escapades implies approval. If you want your kids to refrain from Halloween vandalism, don't make it funny. Joke and laugh with friends about the days of old if you wish. Keep it to yourself around the kids. Don't let them catch you taking vandalism lightly. Take it seriously and impose serious consequences.

It's up to you to set an example now. You're in charge. You're not a kid anymore. It's your job to turn your kids into responsible human beings. Give your kids the same good parenting your parents gave you. You may think it's all well and good to talk about your funny childhood experiences. Just don't leave out the lessons you learned along the way.

Have you forgotten the details? It wasn't all fun and games was it? Chances are, you faced consequences for your actions back then. If you must share stories of the good old days, use your experiences to illustrate that. You've had a chance to grow up and see the error of your ways. You might prevent them from making the same mistakes.

Don't give them ideas. Are you giving your kids lessons in Halloween vandalism? Kids are imaginative enough without you reminiscing. You did some crazy things on Halloween back in the day. Do you really want your kids emulating your juvenile behavior? Do you really want to be that sort of inspiration? Save the soap and toilet paper for their intended use by saving your stories for mature audiences only.

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