Divorce and Children: Who Really is Affected?

DIVORCE... is legal separation of a husband and wife.
I'm not against divorce or separation of couple, because
divorce is the answer of the couple problems,like not success or
they are no longer harmoniously lives together.

But the affect of divorce to a children has a negative, not all
children cannot cope with the stress of parents' separation.
according to the psychiatric doctors most of teenage patient, reveal
that mental and emotional disturbances has a direct link to dysfunctional
families.

For instant a broken family led children to become, addict to drugs,
or lack of interest to education, black sheep kids and the worst of all,
become juvenile delinquents. Lack of parental supervision drove children
to seek attention to peers who can fulfill their longing for family.

DIVORCE may be answer to couple problems....
But to children it is a serious nightmare. It solved one problem yet create
another mess. Unless, parents realized that what they build should focus
more on children welfare, they just add burden to society's problems.

How many children should gone astray. First, before couple must view that
marriage is sacred and bound to last. If family is the basic unit of society
then all of individual's effort must be focused on preserving it that breaking it by means of divorce.

If divorce is the solution to irreconcilable difference of couple, then measures
to remedy children must be adopted to lessen the blow. Counseling and support
organization should be set up for children to easily cope with negative consequences.
Children are our future so give them benefit of protection by
securing their best INTEREST. Young age like 8 yrs old up to 16 yrs. old parents guide is needed
more LOVE and ATTENTION is needed.