Divorced Women with or Without Children - Who Has it Easier to Find a Date?

Ladyfire11
Who has it easier to find a date.A single women divorced or a single mother who is divorced.Have you ever stopped to think about what life after divorce means? Do you ever wonder if you will find a second chance at love? This is a typical thought for a divorce women without children.Will the man that I find be able to love my children the way they needed to be loved? Can a man ever love me after he finds out I have children?

Now this is how a divorced women with children thinks. Dating is very confusing no matter if you have been married or not. The problem lies with stereotyping and history. Back in the day it was wrong to see a women unwed with children.Women stayed in marriages because of this stereo type.Even if they were unhappy or being abused.Being afraid that they would be considered in that stereo type scared women into believing they had to stay.

Now when you jump into our era it becomes more common for women to get divorces.Women have nothing to fear.Will not be put down for their choices and will not be judged.So they say.After finding a group of single man and a group of single women I put the theory to test.

Who really has it easier? We will start with the men and there opinons first.

Male 1 replied: "I prefer a single women without children" ,"not to be rude but children are alot to deal with and when you are entering a relationship there is already to much confusion to add kids in it."
Male 2 replied : "I do not judge a women by the luggage she has but by how she carries that luggage."
Male 3 stated : " I just don't want kids because I am still a kid myself."
Male 4 stated: " I refuse to judge a women because she has kids but it does make me enter into the relationship with caution.
Male 5 said: "It doesnt matter to me if someone has kids are not." why ? " because i am a single father with kids."

After picking out the best of the men.Weighing what each have said the balance to our main question would be:
40% prefer women without children
40% dont care if the women has children
10% are single parents who know how it feels
10% just dont want to grow up and truely believe they are kids themselfs.

Lets take a look at what the women had to say.I asked 10 women that had kids and 10 women who didnt just to see what we could find out.Who really has it easier?

Women 1 - believes that single women without children has it easier.Most men out there prefer to have no kids.
Women 2- Has four kids and has been divorced and she thinks single women without children have it made.
women 3- "I dont have kids but have been divorced havent had any problems finding a date." "My friends how ever have kids and have a rough time trying to find someone true."
Women 4 states -"I dont think it matters about the kids."
Women 5 - "I am single and I have had problem finding a man."

To sum up the womens poll to our questions.The balance would be something like this:

72% believes women without children have a easier time
18% believes it is equal
10% believes that single women with children have it easier

Does it really matter if a women has children? Do men really pass judgement based on kids? What do you think?

Published by Ladyfire11

I am a single mother of 4.Thanks to my kids I have learned that life is way to short to not have fun and speak your mind with freedom.Through my eyes I hope to open yours..  View profile

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