There's a long-held suspicion that a beautiful woman doesn't get approached because her looks appear too intimidating. The rejection factor is too much of a risk, so why bother? While this tends to be more myth than reality, there's also the opposite end of the spectrum. The overly aggressive guy with more than a few consumed alcoholic drinks manages to stumble his way over. More times than not, this guy amounts to a turn off. So, as the night progresses, it's possible nobody of substance approaches that beautiful woman because she's either too intimidating in looks or some poor chap makes a fool of himself.
While these are some logical possibilities, a lot of times a beautiful woman's problem comes down to approachability. Four general reasons may explain a lack of approachability.
1. Negative vibes...When a woman doesn't have approachability, she may not be aware of the problem. Even though she's qualified in the looks department, she's also making it difficult for guys to strike up a conversation. Why? She's complaining to friends about guy issues in the corner of the room. Since the negative vibes are just too much of a hassle, guys may be reluctant to approach. Whereas, if the same girl seems kind of fun to be around and is having a good time, guys may feel more confident in their approach.
2. Pack of friends...If a beautiful woman is huddled around her friends, it really makes it difficult for any woman to get approached, let alone the beautiful one. It's much more challenging for a guy to approach the wolf pack as opposed to one sheep.
3. Place...Talk about catching someone off-guard, single guys have their chick radar up, constantly. It's a hunter's instinct. So, when a guy manages the fortitude to approach a beautiful woman in a place where she isn't ready for it, such as the supermarket or the mall, she isn't immediately prepared for a conversation. She hasn't had the opportunity to check the guy out first, and she's probably moving fast and not paying attention. If she seems standoffish in this environment, she probably wasn't ready for interaction.
4. Frame of mind...Sometimes the beautiful woman isn't in the proper frame of mind for meeting others. She could be upset, concerned about a friend, or more than likely already has a man. In any of these situations, she's not thinking man interaction and will also appear standoffish.
The beautiful, hot-looking woman generally will always get approached and get asked out by guys. The above scenarios more or less apply the exception rather than the rule.
Published by Michael Martin
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Post a CommentI think a lot of guys are intimidated by beautiful women. I say take a shot. All they can is no.