Do Men Kiss and Tell? One Man's Experience

At the risk of alienating myself from guys everywhere, I am going to divulge what men talk about when gossiping about women. This article offers generalizations of experiences from my group of friends throughout my life. As a heads up, this article is of a sexual nature. I hope it will help women of all ages to make better decisions when it comes to casual affairs. Maybe the information will be useful to you or someone you know. Either way, I hope it is an enjoyable read on the subject of men gossiping about women.

Baseball

From about middle school, guys start a lifelong quest for sexual satisfaction. Some have picked up insights from older brothers, friends, parents, Playboys, movies and/or television. Others have very limited knowledge of the truth about men and women. At some point in time, advancement on this quest was turned into sexual baseball. Friends asking each other which base they got to on last night's date. The rules are simple: first base, kissing; second base, breasts; third base, vagina; home-run, sexual intercourse. I think this is probably due to the novelty of sexuality and group think of teenagers. Men gossiping about women and the sexual acts they shared begins at a relatively young age and continues.

A Friend's First

A friend of mine started dating a girl in high school who every guy wanted to have sex with. She was not promiscuous, but was well put together. The two of them became sexually active after becoming exclusive, and I heard all about it. More than a decade later I can tell you details about her anatomy, sexual preferences and other private details that I should not know. She became attached to him. When he broke up with her, she was near constantly trying to get him back. The two had sex on a few occasions after breaking up. She began having sex more casually, and later had a one-night stand with another close friend of ours who also know the details previously mentioned. The two shared stories with each other, me and maybe others.

Tales over Time

In my experience, men talk about sexual encounters with women in more detail the earlier in the relationship sexual intercourse occurs. One nighters are talked about more than regular sex with a partner. There is still the thrill of the hunt in these situations, and men talk about sexual conquests. I have had friends start dating women they have had one-night stands with at an earlier point in time. As with the high school example, I knew things I should not. If keeping your reputation clean is something you desire, I urge you to think twice about casual sex. Men talk about women with their friends. Some in more detail than others, but it happens.