Do Women Have as Strong of Sex Drives as Men?

I have been in many discussions regarding the sex drives of women, and many people uphold that women's physical passions are as strong as men's. Why is it that they tend to become defensive when I present evidence to the contrary?

My findings reveal that a lot of men like to believe that "they are the one" capable of pleasing a woman physically. Because I make a case that women don't have as high of sex drives, they'll scoff and say that my personal sex life is inadequate and that what I say simply doesn't jive with "their performance." I find this to be ridiculous beyond belief, but I won't go into it further at this time.

Feminists like to feel they are on the same level as men, and are supposed to have "equal" sexual feelings, in accordance with politically correct "equality," or women's rights. We can observe women visiting male exotic performances, but no one will convince me that they are actually attracted to men's bodies in a sexual or sensual way. I maintain that they are at these events predominantly for amusement and entertainment.

Let's look at the 8 indications that suggest women's physical drives are not a strong as men's, even though their enjoyment of sex overall might be better and more meaningful. These are applicable to the entire world, so no one can say that they represent my own personal failures or shortcomings. Oh, how glad I am to nip that one in the bud!

Female Lesser Sex Drive Indication Number 1: The World's Oldest Profession

The world's oldest trade was not established by men for the needs of women, but rather vice versa, and the industry remains the same to this very day. If the roles were reversed and men started offering their services for payment, business would probably be very poor.

Female Lesser Sex Drive Indication Number 2: Strategic Headaches

"Headaches" seem to be the most classic excuse portrayed in movies, but this excuse and other physical ailments are often used by women in real life to get out of having sex. Men, on the other hand, would find sex therapeutic in relieving real headaches.

Female Lesser Sex Drive Indication Number 3: Faked Orgasmic Enjoyment

We're all familiar with the term "faking it," and it's used every day of the week. I can only imagine how much it's used in ladies' rooms. If women were into sex that much, then why would they have to fake it? Men would never fake it, because they're totally into it.

Female Lesser Sex Drive Indication Number 4: Sex Used to Get One's Way

We all know this goes on, and I'm not going to say a whole lot about it, except that men do not use sex to get their way as some women do. If the sex drives were equal or reversed, men would indeed be able to use sexual strategies.

Female Lesser Sex Drive Indication Number 5: Women Prefer Soap Operas, Chocolate and Spending Time with Children Better Than Sex, According to Studies

Don't take my word for it; look it up on the Net and you'll probably find a lot more preferential priorities in addition to the three I've mentioned. Sex fell pretty low on the list for women, if I recall correctly. Most women probably won't need to look it up, because they'll admit it to themselves.

Female Lesser Sex Drive Indication Number 6: The Animal Kingdom Teaches Us a Lot

We can observe first hand the sexual behavior of many animals. The males of most species tend to be aggressive and the females are often not in the mood, or else run to get away. The hens I once had on my small ranch ran hard to get away from the rooster.

Female Lesser Sex Drive Indication Number 7: Drunk Under the Table

Women often need to be intoxicated to get into the mood. Men are almost always in the mood, generally speaking.

Female Lesser Sex Drive Indication Number 8: Women are Attracted to Other Qualities in Men

Women tend to place a higher value on the decent qualities of men and their level of sincerity than the physical stimulation they may derive from them. They are usually ruled more by sense rather than sensation.

Is all of this to say that women are not interested in having sex? No, and again, we're speaking mainly of physical drives as compared with those of men. Women need to experience love and caring from a man, which tend to come first.

Why have I gone into all of this, and for whom? It is largely for men, who need to understand that the needs of women are different, so that they may be inclined to be less selfish. Women also should be able to gain a lot of insight from the points that I've expressed.