Do Women Hate Men's Sexual Fantasies?

One of the most fascinating subjects on the face of the earth is that of men and their sexual fantasies. Depending on what woman you talk to the answer to whether they like, approve, or downright hate their man's sexual fantasies can be an emphatic Yes, or No. So, here it goes what I have heard over the past forty years (since my teens), from thousands of women on how they feel about their men's sexual fantasies. Of course some personal experience is always thrown in just to make it more interesting. Let's take a look at how the woman who says Yes feels, and the woman who says, No feels. Always remember though nothing in life is true for everybody. The following information of course is in general, and what I have heard regarding how women feel about this controversial issue over the years.

The woman who says, Yes. She says Yes, because it is a fantasy that is between her and her man only. In other words, no one else is involved and it is based on mutual respect and love. The fantasy is usually set in some romantic, exciting place. . Neither is thinking of anyone else. Most women I have spoken with hated it if the fantasy included that she be someone else, such as a celebrity, model, or porn actress. No form of Pornography is usually included. No matter what anyone says, most women do not like pornography. There is no controlling or domination included. Most women seem to like the romantic versions, with maybe an n exciting place like in a public place thrown in. It's no secret that romance is the key here. Any man that has figured that out probably has a pretty satisfying sex life. So, the woman who says, Yes, tends to like a lot of romance thrown in with a little excitement. It may not be the whole enchilada for the man, but what you do get can be very satisfying and exciting. You may even have sex more often, if you remember Not to push the envelope past where your love interest may be comfortable.

The woman who says, No is because what the man is expecting is too much, and he is going too far. Try and remember guys, women's emotions are the stepping-stone to a good sex life for you and for her. Most women cannot stand any type of pornography because unfortunately we have a really bad habit of comparing ourselves to other women. The average woman can't compare to a 20 year old in expensive lingerie, who has been airbrushed to perfection. Most women like to feel she's the one turning you on, not someone else. The last thing you ever want to do is ask them to pretend their Angelina Jolie, I mean really, if you have that fantasy keep it to yourself. Unless of course she's into you being Brad Pitt. Go ahead guys try and compare yourself to Brad. Most women are not fond of twisted sex. Honest! If you really need to spank someone, maybe you should start dating a dominatrix. When it's too twisted women feel like you're into what's happening, rather than into them. We ALL, men and women alike, need to feel that we are the ones that are desired, and we are the ones exciting our partner.

If men could just understand, that if they just expect a little less on the bizarre, or sleazy side, and add a little more romance, and real affection, they could have a sex life worth bragging about (but don't). Remember guys, it's the key to her heart that opens the door to paradise, not the key to an adult bookstore, or swinger's club!

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