Do Women Want Sex as Much as Men Do?
Sometimes I feel like I am a pervert or something, because I am always thinking about my boyfriend, and what we did the night before. I openly admit my desires, and in general my dirty thoughts. I am not shy, so why deny what I think, feel, or want? I am not a pervert, I am a happy, healthy twenty something. I am blessed with imagination, a healthy desire for sex, and a wonderful lover.
So do women want sex as much as men do? Women want sex as much, if not more than men do. Sex just isn't a physical sensation. Sex is like comforting, exciting, relaxing, and fun. Sex is a wonderful stress reliever and great exercise, if you are doing it right! The emotional sensations are equally as wonderful as the physical sensations. Why wouldn't women want sex often? If you are not doing something right, that could be the cause. If you are a man reading this, and you are thinking 'Yeah, my wife doesn't even like sex.' You should do a little extra grooming, and try a new technique or approach.
I have heard that men think about sex every so many seconds, but I have also heard from as many men that isn't accurate. I think a few guys who are like that have given men in general a bad image. Adult males are normally intelligent, and capable of thoughts other than sex, the same as women.
With this having been said, I think men and women are probably equal when it comes to wanting sex, maybe men in general are just more vocal about it. In our society, with all of our double standards it is not as socially acceptable for women to express their sexual desires. If a women does admit that she enjoys and desires sex, generally she is called unkind names I won't print here. At the same time, a man is expected to think with his penis, and it is completely fine, and maybe even respected.
Some woman want sex as much as men do, but some women want sex more than men!
Published by Chen Salis
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Post a Commentstatistics prov that men and woman equally want sex . and enjoy it just as much as men.statistics also proov that woman on average have more sex then men the average woman has 20 to 25 partners in a lifetime and that men have around 15 sexual partners in alifetime
Iamastraightmaleinmyfiftiesandhavebeenblessedandfortunateinthelooksdepartment.Ihavehadmanymanysexualencounters.Myconclusionisthatmenwantsexwithgreaterfrequencybutitisthewomanwhoenjoystheactmore.theyfeelgreaterpleasure.
The average man wants sex much more often than the average woman. To deny the biological differences between men and women is as stupid as denying the physical differences. Men and women are different in some ways, and I'll never understand why some people just can't accept that
your article itself shows how much men want sex more than women. First of all u and all the other women out there saying that u think abt sex a lot pls undrstand that "a lot" is a relative term...wat u women mean by "a lot" is nothing compared to wat we men mean by "a lot"...and maybe the guys u asked didnt wanna admit it but we do think abt sex every few seconds...the way u say things lik "Sometimes I feel like I am a pervert" and how men who think at sex often give a "bad image" itself shows how differently u think from men...women enjoy sex and want it too i agree...but u dont knw how much men want it...thats y u think that women enjoy sex as much or even more than men...
Men who complain the women don't innitiate sex or dont have sex enough are not well educated as to the reasons why. But I should note that women are to blame for this misinformation in today's society. Every woman knows, that to attract and keep a man interested, they will need to 'put out' because if they dont the man will surely leave them. Woman want emotional security in a relationship and usually will be completely satisfied with being with one man for the rest of their lives. The problem lies when they get married and the woman has had the man commit to her, and no longer feels the need to often 'fake' interest in sex to keep up with the male sex drive. Often it is not that women have completely lost interest in sex, because the drive was hardly there in the beginning, and was only amplified because of womans need to capture emotional intimacy from physical intimacy.
The female body was not created equal to the male mody when it comes to sexual satisfaction. A woman has very
I think about sex all the time. I want sex 2 to 3 x a day unfortunately my bf is happy with sex 2 or 3 x a week. i have a collection of porn and sex toys and I use them often. I always orgasm with my bf he is great in bed but I still want it more often. So there are women who want and desire sex more often than men
Wow, some of these comments are utterly incomprehensible. First, just because a woman wants more than sex, doesn't mean she doesn't want sex itself as much or even more than the average male. Based on my experience as well as that of many other male friends, we have come to conclude that women desire sex as much or even more than men. Now, maybe the world is full of needy, horny little boys, but guys in my circle of friends tend to lead full lives, and while we appreciate a hot steamy moment shared with a woman, it's not the pinnacle of our existences. We have other stuff going on.
Guys who have little going on tend to pine over and fixate on sex. Advice: get a life, dude.
Also, in the article you mention the wife who isn't into sex. How about the husbands you hear about who aren't into sex with their wives, even though the wives are eager? A little grooming and fitness might help there too. I am reminded of the Chief of Medicine in Scrubs who fed his wife antidepressants to su
A lot of girls think about sex a lot, but openly admitting it will have negative consequences. I don't want to attract people that will see me as a sex toy, so I've found it better to just keep my thoughts to myself!
I also think some men and women lie about how often they think about sex....A guy that doesn't think about it that often will pretend that he thinks about it a lot just to look "normal". A woman will lie and say she doesn't think about it that much, when she secretly does!
I'm 24 and I think about sex a lot. I think it's true that men are just more vocal about wanting sex than women are. I prefer to have hot, steamy sex with a FWB than emotional sex with a BF. In my experience, sex is always better when you and your partner both have the same sex drive, for my case I always look for someone with a high sex drive to please my desires.
i dont think women want sex as much as men do for the simple fact that in a relationship women want more then sex
I disagree as being a man I know that I want much more from my relationship than just sex, I love my girlfriend and live to see her happy.