Don't Date a Married Man

There are so many articles written about what to look for to see if your man is married. However, women for one reason or another decide to ignore those signs and continue with the relationship. There is not much good that can come from dating a married man. Not only are you going to hurt yourself but you are also going to hurt an innocent woman and her children. So if you really believe that the married man you are dating look again at the signs below....is that really love. As you read the signs below trust your gut if these are happening then he is married, no matter what reason he may give.

1.
He is not available for you. This means you can't be with him at night, weekends and never on holidays. He always has some excuse of why he is busy. He has to work late, going to hang out with friends or worse his mother is dying. If he can not find time to spend with you than he is spending it at home with his wife and kids.

2.
You call his cell phone and get his voice mail for hours at a time. He is turning his phone off so that she won't see who is calling. He can't take the chance his wife might pick up the phone for him since is outside mowing the grass. Another case of him not being available for you.

3.
You barely go out anywhere in public. He does not want to be seen with you going to a movie, a ball game or to a nice restaurant. You mainly meet for lunch or at your apartment. If he even suggests you got to a hotel....you know he is a married man. It is not "I just thought it would be romantic for us to steal a few minutes away in the middle of the day."

4.
He is always finding fault with you. Yes, you the one who is faithful and thoughtful about his needs. Little things you do make him upset and you find yourself worrying about what he will say or think. He is trying to cover his own guilt for what he is doing.

5.
If he says they are getting a divorce run and run fast. Most married men do not leave their wives for other women. Now women will leave a cheating man in a heartbeat. But if he is really getting a divorce and wants to be with you, then he can wait till it is final and prove it to you.

Before you enter a relationship with a married man, realize all the things you will have to give up for that relationship. You won't be sharing with your friends how wonderful Mr. Right is. You will not be introducing him to your family or waking up together on Christmas morning. That has already been reserved for the woman he walked down the aisle with. Wait for you Prince to come, don't settle for someone's Prince.