Don't Spend Too Much Money on Your Girlfriend or Boyfriend

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Hello, and welcome to another of my readings. I usually write poems, and short articles, and the topic I have for this article is kind of interesting. This article is about relationships, and the topic is "Don't Spend Too Much Money on Your Girlfriend or Boyfriend." Because, I recently spent a lot of money on my ex-girlfriend, and it was a really big mistake. In this article I will give the reasons why not to spend a lot of money on your girlfriends, and when is the proper time to spend money, based on my past experiences.

If you only known that person for only a few months, or maybe a few days, it's better to not spend not too much money on her, or him. Do the regular dating routine, and enjoy yourself, and go to all the inexpensive restaurants, and fun activity places, like the bowling alley. Maybe try to take walks in public places, like the mall, or maybe in the forest, where it is peaceful. Just whatever you do always think "cheap," because you might be serious about the other person in the relationship, but he, or she is not serious about you. During this time of not spending too much money, you will get to know this person better, and hopefully the relationship will go farther than you imagined in life.

Another big spending mistake, which is a major one, and I'm very guilty of. Whatever you do, "don't buy your loved one a very expensive piece of jewelry especially from a Zales Jewerly Store." This big spending should wait until you are engaged, or much better when you are about to get married. This expensive gift will open your loved one's eyes, but the question is, "how long will it last."

I not trying to disrespect, or offend no one by the typing of this article, but these are things that people should be aware of, because there is a lot of rude people out there in this world that try to take advantage of your heart. Like I said earlier in this article, I have been through this recently, and it is not very fun to get "played." But, the good thing you get out of all of this is a very generous word called "experience." I hope you enjoyed my article, and please leave comments.

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  • Slim12/7/2011

    I love this artical and love that a guy wrote this. I hate when I see bubble headed guys and girls spend way too much money on someone they barely know. Its one thing to give them something reasonable if you met close to the holidays or their birthday, but its another to spend all this money on game counsels, coach bags, jewlery,and expensive colonge on a person you hardly know or keep going back and forth with. It boggles my mind how stupid some people are. I totally agree with the jewlery comment a guy i work with asked me to pick out jewlery from Tiffanys for a girl who isnt even sure why he likes and he doesnt even consider that she might start planning out their wedding in her head after she get that little blue box that girls love so much. I think expensive gifts are to be earned with a lot time and dedication to the relationship.

  • keron11/23/2011

    well said dude!

  • a lady4/6/2011

    Yes! Finally someone who is wiser to how to handle women! I am a woman and I have known a couple guys who have gotten into debt from going out all the time and buying expensive things, as well as going on vacations with their previous gf. I myself prefer a gentleman who is responsible, not one who always spends money!!

  • Q123m11/4/2010

    Hello my dear friend !
    I really like what you written, I really learn from your writing i am glad from your words and that is an advice to every one.
    I hope every one learn some thing from your article.
    thank you so much.

  • Pure Writing9/14/2009

    thanks for the love "treppenwitz and teela" and thanks for the support.

  • treppenwitz9/14/2009

    let's talk about bitterness... AC should remove this article for being worthless.

  • Teelaa5/3/2009

    this is the shittest article ever ahaha! ur a joke lol .. u woudnt get very far if u not gona take a special places to show u love her , she will end up thinking that u are unsure and dont trust her to be with you. so she will get fed up at some point and would find a guy who will express his love not only through cheap talk and places but treating her like shes the only one he got. if he loves her , and gurls... neva break a guys heart who does this.

  • Pure Writing1/9/2009

    thanks for the comment SAM I HEAR U BRO but sometimes we do some real unreal stuff when it comes to females and spending was my weakness lol thanks for the advice man peace.

  • Sam12/3/2008

    Horrible article, when you are in a relationship you are trting to find true love. Just be yourself. If you are a spender, then spend. If you aren't then don't. In different instances dont be a different person.

  • Pure Writing10/4/2008

    Thanks Jarett for the commnet, but I only write the truth, yeah you have to be careful on chicks like that, but maybe your girlfreind is actually nice, you just have to test her to the extreme, just like shes testing you right now, if you need tips, just email me personally to :
    purewriting@hotmail.com i get the message instantly on my phone. peace.

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