Dress to Impress, with a Lady-like Attitude - Save Your Breasts for Your Husband

Viktorya Hale
There is something that has always boggled me. Perhaps that is why I am writing this article. Perhaps I need to just go ahead and get it off my chest.

I wanted to name this article "Looking Like a Bimbo with Your Boobs Hanging Out", but I figured that was too harsh. I know that some women really don't realize that they are showing "too much", so maybe this will learn them :)

Our bodies are sacred temples. They are to be treated as such. When we are married, our bodies are no longer ours, but our spouses. We become one with them. This is the Word of God.

1 Corinthians 6:19 says: What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own? Go ahead and read the entire chapter. It will help To me this is letting me know that my body no longer belongs to me but to the Lord. The Holy Ghost dwells within our body, so it should remain holy.

Say you are not even a Christian at all or you "are" but you still don't see anything wrong with exposing your "gifts" (fake or real) to everyone else. That is what I don't understand?

Why does a grown woman think that it is ok to expose her bosom to every other man around her? It's not ok. Well forget about me, what about your husband? How does he feel about her spreading her blessings around for other eyes to relish?

Christian or not, it's just not right.

On another note, what is this telling your children? They are thinking that it is ok for a lady to show her breasts to everyone, so when he is old enough to date, he is bound to find a woman who flaunts her stuff just like Mommy does. Hmmm. Even my 6 and 7 year old sons say "eww mom, look how that lady is dressed". They know that it is wrong, because their mommy dresses like a lady and doesn't have the need to flaunt her stuff.

Hey I will admit it. I am not big at all on top and I have come to the conclusion that they will remain that way forever. I am comfortable with that. However, I have grown up! I am no longer a teenager who is flaunting for a date. Oh and I used to do it too. NOW I AM NOT EVEN MARRIED! I am single, so I should let it all hang out? NOT! Oh and even if I didn't have love for someone, I still wouldn't feel the need to show it to everyone else. Why? Because to me that is sin against my own body.

A married lady should RESPECT her husband enough to keep her goods for his eyes only. It's proper. It's mature. It's just right!

If I still haven't convinced you, listen...

Do you have a son? If so, what would you think if he brought a girl over with her tits hanging out of her shirt? Can you see your baby boy dating someone like that? How about marrying someone like that and continues to be like that for the whole world to see? Isn't that a little degrading? It's disgraceful to you, your husband, your kids and those around you.

So how much is too much? Hey let Hollywood's bimbos be the ones to show all their cleavage. I think that cleavage is sexually attractive to men and all men will look. I think that cleavage is for your husband's eyes only. If you cross your legs and can see stocking hems then the skirt is too skimpy. Hey if you have the need to dress sexy, get a room! Tease your husband, not the rest of the men in the world. Just be a lady out in public and a wildcat in the bed. That is sneaky, seductive, sexy and exciting TO YOUR HUSBAND. Don't allow other men that pleasure.

Published by Viktorya Hale

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  • daniel wade barry4/18/2010

    i'm not saying i don't look but i wish i was above it, your right women should dress like ladies.

  • Victorya Hale2/17/2010

    I agree with the insecurity part - however I am only 30 :)

  • Tracie Walker2/17/2010

    I think a lot of it is done from insecurity. I guess we older women will have to continue to teach the young ones what is proper.

  • Charlotte Kuchinsky2/16/2010

    I agree but a lot of people don't I'm sure by what I see on the streets.

  • Glynis Jolly2/16/2010

    It's sad that this even has to be discussed in print but it's obvious that that is the case. Very well written.

  • mimpi2/16/2010

    How I love that and agree totally! I think, we need to be a little more wiser at times. Great article!

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