Early Childhood Development Programs -- Are They Worth the Cost?

Music, sign language, art, gymnastics... Parents today have a huge range of choices for early education classes. Many programs are targeting extremely young children, even newborns, by promising parents long term benefits.

Early education classes can be expensive and sometimes even stressful to young children, however the industry is thriving because it plays into parents' worst fears:

· Am I spending enough time with my child?

· Am I helping him develop to his fullest potential?

· Will she be as academically advanced as other children?

· Will he be socially adjusted?

Before signing up for the latest "Mommy and Me" class, consider the following:

What is the real cost?

For some programs, tuition is just the beginning. Find out what materials you will have to purchase, and how often. Are the books, CDs and musical instruments worth the price?

Do you like the teacher and the class?

If you are bored or uncomfortable during the class, odds are your child will pick up on it and not have a good experience. Are the other parents welcoming? Does the teacher greet everyone by name and seem happy to see every child? Do you enjoy doing the activities with your son or daughter?

Do you have a realistic understanding of the benefits?

If you expect a music class to turn your toddler into a violin prodigy, or a movement program to prepare her for Olympic glory, you may be disappointed. The classes should focus on fun and bonding, not demand perfection or force specific skills.

What if your schedule changes?

Is the program large and flexible enough to accommodate makeup classes? If there are no refunds, is your schedule predictable enough that you can commit to attending through the term?

Could your time be better spent?

Consider carefully before signing your child up for more than one program at a time. Babies, toddlers and preschoolers need "downtime" to develop their own imaginations and relax. Limit structured classes. They should be a treat, not a replacement for playtime.

Early childhood classes can be fun for babies and parents, but they are not the only way to promote early childhood development and bonding. If the classes are too expensive, inconvenient or not enjoyable, relax! There are many other activities that may be better suited for your family, including:

· reading together

· pouring dry beans into cups and buckets

· "painting" with water on the sidewalk

· visiting the zoo

· examining ants at the park - put out a spoonful of sugar and just watch

· involving your toddler in cooking dinner

· dancing in the living room

· teaching your preschooler to fold napkins and washcloths

· sorting buttons