Eight Great Tips to Amp Your Class Factor

So many think that class has to do with cash, but you can radiate "classy" without spending a dime (or at least prioritizing the dimes!) First, let's take a quick look at what the dictionary says about class, so we are on the same page. As an adjective, class is defined as "of high quality, integrity, status or style." Most would agree these are admirable traits.

It is not a stereotype, or a betrayal of one's self to be classy, but a matter of good habits, that enables you to be known for being a "class act," worthy of admiration in whatever you do. Whether you are an artist, musician, businessman or homemaker...you can encompass class that will elevate your opinion of yourself and the way others view you. So, let's get "classy." Check out these great tips you can implement today that touch both on the tangible and manners of "high quality."

Embrace Clothing Basics
Unfortunately, in today's society so much of your persona depends on your clothing. This is great news for the stylish. This is horrible for so many people without money to buy what they want, or positive tasteful influence, or artistic ability. It can be hard to showcase what you feel (with your wardrobe) when you don't have the money for the articles of clothing that seem to reflect who you are most. If you are in this boat, it is a total win to stick to the basics - and it is the "basics" that are more likely to say, "class" than branching out on a style limb.

For example, if there is a local teenage boy, born and raised on the beach with a very limited household income his clothes may reveal his status. Take another boy the same age, down on the beach for vacation. This boy is the son of a millionaire. However, if you put both boys in a white V neck t-shirt and tan shorts, it is impossible to determine at a glance who has the financial edge, and all that many assume goes along with that. Fewer assumptions can be made, and both boys are on an even ground, given the benefit of no stereotype. They both have class.

If you cannot be stereotyped, you will usually have the edge of class (until proven otherwise.) This is accomplished by sticking to the basics in your wardrobe. Sure, the beach boy may have got his distressed tan shorts at Goodwill, while the other paid $70 at a department store - but who can tell? If you are looking for a plumb line for the basics, J.Crew offers an awesome website as a guide, called "The Always List." Remember, these items can be purchased anywhere. But there is nothing like consulting style experts before you lay down the cash.

"Always List" at J.Crew On-Line: http://www.jcrew.com/AST/Browse/MensBrowse/Men_Feature_Assortment/alwayslist.jsp

Pay for the Shoes
A very key differentiator in a classy appearance is the shoes. Cheap shoes just look cheap, most of the time. Remember "class" by definition, is high quality and this will show in a shoe after a week or two of wear. So, if you are going to spend a dime at all to stand out and look a notch above, spend it on the shoes.

Be sure to consult the great shoe-stores in town. They will always have the latest. Pick out exactly what you would pick if money were no object. Then...head to Marshall's or TJ Maxx, or any store that sells name brands for less and buy something similar. In addition, online shopping can offer enormous savings. So, note the brand and style you like and type it in at home in the search engine. This can cut your price in half!

Get the Good Watch
Seriously, this is the last of the tangible items (specifically for men.) But a good watch separates the men from the boys! A man could be in his boxers and a Rolex...and he screams class. Of course, we can't all afford a Rolex. (Darn!)

Still, a watch is generally a tell-tale sign that a man cares about his appearance and the details. You almost cannot go wrong with a heavy silver watch. Sam's sells great watches for men as cheap as anywhere. It is a great place to start for a hearty watch that says, "Hey, I am worth it!"

For more information see Sam's Online:http://www.samsclub.com/sams/shop/category.jsp?categoryId=1686&navAction=jump

Choice Accessories Carefully
This is the last tangible item, mainly for the ladies. When accessorizing, remember that less is more. Class is marked by single items, not a trillion all loaded on one hand or wrist. It is knowing the highest quality item speaks for itself, and realizing there is no need for anything else.

Smile More, Talk Less
Truly, people with class listen more than they talk. This is a sign of great integrity to know that you have more to learn from others by listening, than talking. When you talk, you give yourself away. When you listen...you learn.

Talk Soft in Good Grammar
Oh boy, this is huge. It is simple and huge. Talking soft, yet audible is a sure sign you have been taught manners. If you want everyone to hear you...the real question is why? Others may assume, "She is being loud because she wants everyone to know what she knows, or know how great her day was, how resourceful she is, how loved, how funny...whatever it is she wants everyone to know." What does that really say about the loud talker? It says, they have not been taught manners, they are intrusive and either really insecure or really overbearing - seeking the approval of all around them.

If you are a class act, there is a quiet confidence. If you are loved, others will know. If you are funny, others will know. If you are resourceful, others will know. We really don't have to scream it from the rooftops. So, talk soft and mild to whom you are speaking with - and make sure they can hear (as opposed to everyone in a 30 foot radius.)

Also, so many people flub the English language and in the end, it speaks volumes about your ability to learn, be corrected, pay attention and upbringing. The most common give aways are putting yourself last when telling a story of you and another person. Example, "John and I" (as opposed to me and John.) Another common blatant blunder is using a noun after the word "them" (example: "them shoes." Finally, the word "ain't" really isn't classy.

Be Gentle, Move with Thought
The classiest people ever have one thing in common; they move gently and speak thoughtfully.

Groom Neatly
Class is high quality, we established that. However, who determines quality? It is quite subjective. However, if we drive a $400 car or a $50,000 car, clean is clean...and neat grooming is class. It speaks volumes about you and your concern for your things and those around you. It is a still respect that sits in the air of your home and your life. Cleanliness shines bright because it says, I worked for it...and I care.

Imagine two first grade girls. One is rich, groomed and in a million dollar dress. One is clean and in a dress, neatly pressed...but out of style, older perhaps. Who has more class? Neither. Class has nothing to do with money. But...truth be known...the rich mother may have wonderful taste and all the money in the world to pick the best dress. Oh, the child appears classy. However, the child in the out of style dress - who is clean and cared for, speaks VOLUMES about class. This child has a mother who is teaching her to look the best she can with what she has - and care for her things. THAT is class and was found in a hand-me-down.

Ultimately, what makes you high quality is your belief in yourself. What we wear, or how we talk is a mere reflection that we are teachable and paying attention. So, pay attention to the basic clothes and stay well groomed. Pay attention to your watch, shoes and accessories - for it is the little things that give our status away. Talk less, talk soft and listen...and class will find you...in wisdom.

References:
http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/class