Erin Micklow on LA Fitness Center Shooter: 'George Didn't Seem like a Bad Person'

Last Year, Erin Micklow was Hired to Work at a Dating Seminar Attended by Geroge Sodini

Hartley Engel
Last year, Erin Micklow, a 20-year-old aspiring model and actress, was hired to work at a dating seminar attended by George Sodini, the 48-year-old man who shot and killed three women and wounded nine others at the LA Fitness gym in suburban Pittsburgh Tuesday night. In an interview with CNN, Erin Micklow says that Sodini was very quiet and that he didn't seem like a bad person.

Erin Micklow is right. After the aforementioned self-help seminar, which was held in Los Angeles and reportedly attended by a number of lonely men from around the country, Sodini made a YouTube video which was essentially a tour of his house. According to Erin Micklow, Sodini was encouraged to make the video as a homework assignment; it was an attempt to make his home look more presentable to a woman. If you watch the video, you'll discover that George Sodini does indeed seem like a quiet, unassuming fellow; he seems rather gentle, in fact. So Erin Micklow is correct when she says that George Sodini didn't seem like a bad person.

But the truth of the matter is that George Sodini was a bad person. A very, very bad person. Anyone who cold-bloodedly murders innocent people is a bad person. Hello?

I have written two other articles on the LA Fitness shooter and am astonished that some people have posted comments under the articles that actually come to Sodini's defense.

These terribly misguided people are making excuses for Sodini. They argue that "society" shunted him aside for being too nice. One poster says that it's understandable that Sodini snapped. "After being alone for so long, you might snap too," writes the anonymous poster.

One poster named "Mary" writes that she read Sodini's diary and "felt his pain, his loneliness and wept."

I wonder if Mary would have felt Sodini's "pain and loneliness and wept" if one of her relatives had been savagely murdered by him?

It is disrespectful to the people whom Sodini murdered to start making excuses for his appalling act. It's hurtful to their families.

There are literally millions of men out there who are lonely, insecure and are having a hard time getting a woman to go out with them. But for heaven's sake, they don't go out and commit mass murder as a result of their pain and loneliness. (I'm quite sure that many of them are middle-aged men who would love to go out with a beautiful 20-year-old girl like Erin Micklow. Why that is problematic is an important and legitimate topic of discussion; however it is beyond the scope of this article.)

I'll close with the sage words of another commenter, "csy," a person who gets it.

"Sorry, I don't buy the idea that someone somehow has the "'right'" to snap and murder people just because he's tired of being alone."

Sources:

Pennsylvania gym shooter described as quiet, studious, Abi Tatton, CNN

George Sodini Blog Link Reveals the Mind of a Psycopath; Could he Have Been Stopped?, Hartley Engel, Associated Content

Published by Hartley Engel

I was born in Winnipeg, Manitoba, Canada but raised in Los Angeles, California. I have a BA and MsEd degree from USC.   View profile

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  • Kenmaya 8/14/2009

    For the people coming to Sodini's defense on the basis that society had wronged him:

    Walk your talk. Find a man or a woman who lives inside his own head, seethes with anger of imagined abuses, and twists in agony upon social contact. Make him your lifelong intimate partner. Not appealing? Right.

    Other people can only go so far to help otherwise normal people hopelessly stuck in their imaginations. Why did he not arrange a marriage to a woman from Russia or Thailand? A dear male friend of mine did just that. He was plagued by social awkwardness. I prayed that he would find someone (because I surely was not the woman for him). He went to Thailand. Picked out a wonderful girl and married her. We were so relieved. God bless the happy couple. They are like two peas in a pod for over 5 years now.

    You can't always get what you want, But if you try, you just might get what you need.

    There are no excuses for George Sodini. He is a murdering, self-absorbed coward.

  • DWE 8/8/2009

    I agree that they are "making excuses." I'm a quiet and somewhat lonely guy, mainly because of having been emotionally wounded during growing years and after. I'm a "nice guy" and as a result I think people don't treat me like they treat other guys with more confidence. But I'm not going to snap and decide to kill folks. That is sub-human and absolutely absurd. And, if a relative of mine did this, I would be beyond words and very distraught. But the pain would come from the realization that a loved one turned out to be a very bad person.

  • JES 8/7/2009

    You need to read the comments - I don't think anyone is "making excuses" for what this guy did. It was horrific and terrible and he is totally responsible for his actions.
    However, the deep lonliness and hurt that this guy suffered is evident in his postings.
    Hartley Engel, I wonder if you would be so hardened in your viewpoint if one of your relatives had been the one who committed this atrocious act?

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