Essential Signs that He Likes You

Does He like Me?

andra picincu
Even if they try to seem strong, men are incurable shy. When they like a woman, they turn into some school boys and hesitate to express their feelings. Of course, some men only try to impress, in order to add another name on their list; but their gestures of courtesy won't last too much, as they get bored so fast! There are some methods to find out what's going on in their mind and, especially, in their soul:

1. He seems happy every time he sees you, although he doesn't say anything

As you already know, non-verbal communication and body language reveal most of our feelings. It's pretty hard to control your reactions, gestures and tone of voice. Therefore, you can start searching for clues on his face.

If he smiles playfully when he sees you and keeps his good mood during the date, then it is clear: he likes you. Nobody smiles suddenly, without having a reason for happiness.

2. He behaves like a gentleman

He offers his coat when you're cold, he opens the door for you, he keeps your bag if you're busy and he always pays attention to your reactions, in order to help you. Of course, such a behavior suggests a good education, but today, there are only a few men who remember their grandparents' teachings. If he acts like a gentleman, it means that he really cares about and he wants to impress you.

3. Everything reminds him of you

When he calls you at work and announces that he wants to take you home or out, just because he's in the area, if he sends you funny messages on email, if he calls you without a specific reason, it means that he thinks about you most of his time.

4. He always pays attention to your words and gestures

Men are not the greatest listeners in the world. But if your lover is attentive to everything you say, if he remembers that you like coffee without sugar and that you add 2 sachets of brown sugar when drinking cappuccino, that you hate yellow melon- it means that he's really interested in you. Usually, men remember only those things that are truly important for them.

Through these small gestures, he tries to show that he likes you, that you represent something for him. It depends on you to make the first move if he doesn't dare to do it.

Published by andra picincu

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  • Rachel de Carlos8/1/2009

    Those are so true! Great article!

  • Janet Hunt7/30/2009

    Great job! I still think you should write an advice column... :-)

  • Ana Maria Alvarez7/30/2009

    I esp like the first tip! Alot of stuff wears us out on a regular basis, and its good to know that you can bring a smile to someone's face. To like someone is definitely valuable.

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