Ex Girlfriends

OK maybe it is just me but Am I really the only one who feels that it is not a good thing to have your mans ex girlfriend wanting to call him and still be friends? I look at it this way you can not be friends with a woman you dated and had sex with over and over and expect your now going to be wife soon to be OK with it. I'm sorry I was down right pissed off when this woman thought it was OK to call my man at 11:30 pm to talk and text message . He feels I over reacted and said it is normal for ex girlfriends and guys to call every now and then that he has no control over it. We fought for days about this . What the call was about I don't know the first few times but he always ignored it but the last one from her was she wanted to meet with him in town and have sex with him before she got married. I was Like OH God IS SHE FOR REAL? Then there was the other heavy setter who text him and sent him something in photo mail but his phone didn't support it so it got deleted. She is another winner always calling and to this day has called but he will call and leave a message telling her to stop or the police will be called. Then we have the crazy about 400 pounder for real, WHO EMAILS ME AND TELLS ME THAT HER AND HIM HAVE BEEN DATING FOR 9 MONTHS.I asked for proof and she told me things that were not true because I was with him. Ha. she then tells me they had been having sex for 9 months. wow was I hot over her emails we fought and he left but came back the next day. She told me alto of things that were real in our lives and some didn't fit. I will forget but better never see her cause My mouth has been full of a whole lot of something to tell her. I love my life with this man but there is always someone who wants me out and they want to move in on it. Why cant people find someone in their own lives and stop pissing with others who don't want them?