The first thing that you need to do is stay strong. While as simple as it may seem to you, it can be one of the hardest things for you to do. You do not want others, especially your ex, to see that you are emotional at this time. Take some time for yourself to heal, and then get out in public with confidence and show people that you are over it. Sometimes you have to put on an act, but you will eventually get over it emotionally.
Get away from your ex, as almost as if you were ignoring them. You want to make them think that you are too busy in your life to communicate with them, and that you are just fine without them. This may be hard to do if there is children involved in the situation, but this will give them the sense that you are doing just fine, and they may even be a little jealous.
Get the heck out of their place. You want them to believe that you are going to be just fine without them, so get every thing you own away from them so that you do not have to see them. Don't make excuses of you have to go over to their place once a week and get some things, just do it all at once so that you can be independent again. They will start to feel how lonely and empty it really is without you and may feel hurt.
Be yourself. You need to be the person that they fell in love with, and they might start thinking about why they broken the relationship off in the first place. This is the best kind of revenge that you can do to them. Wear your best clothes and look your best anytime that you may plan on seeing them. Be the person that they loved to be with, and they will be regretting anything they did that may have hurt you.
With all of the hurt feelings and emotions going on, this can be a real difficult thing to do, but it is important to show them that you have moved on, to the point where they may be jealous.
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4 Comments
Post a CommentTonight I got out of my car tookmy sone in the house and his birthday party was going on and I said," I hope you all are having a Good Time in my house!" They cussed at me and called the cops!How do you get back at phychos?
Wow. Marrying another guy, and showing him you've moved on quick is the best revenge an ex husband can stand
Horrible advice. Do things for yourself%2C not to make your ex jealous. What if you send the wrong message%2C the ex wants to get back together and you%27re back in the same miserable relationship. Move on for your own sake%21
Great advice especially the part about staying strong and being yourself. I am sure that this article will help a lot of people, especially those freshly divorced.