Expressing Heartfelt Love to Your Mate

Christina Armani
Heartfelt love has different meanings to everyone. Just because you think something is heartfelt, that doesn't mean your mate will. You have to decide for yourself how to personally express your love. No matter what you do, you should always be genuine and sincere. Expressions of love need to come from the heart and soul. They can be something simple like a sweet little e-mail, or fixing a cozy little dinner for two, or just spending quality time alone together.

When expressions of love are thoughtful and romantic, they're guaranteed to brighten your mates day. It's always best to try and avoid are things that are tacky and overdone, unless that's what your mate is into. Showing heartfelt love tells your mate how much they mean to you, and that you'll always be there for them. They also tell your mate that you appreciate them and want to keep them in your life. Whether you're a male or a female, you want your mate to show you that they appreciate you and that they value you. You also want to know that your mate finds you sexy and attractive.

Most people, both male and female want to know that they're being listened to. If your mate says they like something in a store window that you can afford, buy it for them a few weeks later. If your mate says that they miss going to the park, take him or her to the park one weekend. When you prove that you listen to you mate, you show that you value what your mate says and really care. Show your mate that you want them and that you care about what they have to say. Look at your mate when they're talking to you, and seduce him or her once in a while. A lot of people also want to hear a genuine "I love you" once in a while. These are three words a person should never hesitate to say since we never know what tomorrow is going to bring.

The best expressions of heartfelt love are unexpected and spontaneous. When you catch your mate off guard, they'll really know how you feel about them. We all want some action and adventure in our lives, and nothing is more adventurous and exciting than being spontaneous. It's important to express heartfelt love since actions always speak a lot louder than words. You don't need a special occasion or moment to express your heartfelt love. Unplanned expressions of love are a great way to surprise someone and add some spice to the relationship.

Published by Christina Armani

I am a 30y/o female living in Maryland. I am a Christian and love to write religious articles and poems. I like to write, read, shop, watch movies, and have fun with my friends. I have a female cat named...  View profile

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  • Christina Armani3/14/2009

    No I haven't read the book. It's mostly about the little things and you have to pay attention and listen to know what kinds of little things your mate will like.

  • Louise Wise3/13/2009

    A lot of these sound like tips Gary Chapman would have used in his book, Five Love Languages have you read it yet? Its like paying attention to your mate and actually listening instead of hearing them.

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