Fag Hag

pvchina
Fag Fag Fag, thats right I said it. Is it dirty word, depends on your interpretation of it. For me I refuse to see it in a derogatory light. Maybe because I am and have always been a Fag Hag. Some will say thats derogatory, I say only if you accept it as such. I have my own fag, a wonder Italian Fag, what does that mean. Well it means I have a man in my life I love dearly.

So, just what is a Fag Hag, is it someone who has a gay friend or is it more. After considerable thought, I feel its much more. So what is a Fag Hag.

Someone who likes gays,as apposed to who? Is this some form of segregation? If so from who? What truly is the meaning?

Someone who is open minded, well I am very traditional in my views of relationships and family. Does that mean I am closed minded. How can I be a Fag Hag if that is the case.

The conclusion I have come to is simple, its means Freedom. Traditional beliefs steeped deep in freedom. Its about human rights. How do you achieve freedom. The only way I know is to give it away.

If you want the right to hold hands in public you have to give that right away, want the right to marry who you love, give that right away. Want the right to have a family, give that right away.

Until you are willing to give freedom, what right have you to demand freedom. Only when you freely give are you untitled to these rights.

So, where am I on all of this, can you be a Conservative Fag Hag, can you hold transitional beliefs on family?

Well when I see people holding hands, I see commitment, when I see people kiss I see love, when I see people exchanging vowels I see the future, when I see people with kids I see a new world where all people live in peace. I see freedom.

Family are the people you commit your life to, it may not be your choice, but it is someones. Its about freedom to create the family you love.

So the Definition of Fag Hag, Well what do you think, how about freedom fighter, not a bad title for this Hag.

Published by pvchina

I decided to get out of the rat race, find some more peaceful way to live my life. For the pass 10 years I have called Puerto Vallarta home. Bussiness lunches are often tacos in the street or a margarita...  View profile

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  • Cathy A Montville10/11/2008

    This is awesome!

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