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Faraway Friends and Family

One Community in Spirit

Michele Starkey

I came across this verse very early this morning,

John 3:8

"The wind blows wherever it pleases. You hear its sound, but you cannot tell where it comes from or where it is going. So it is with everyone born of the Spirit."

I began to think about my friends and family members and how we are all scattered in the wind sometimes. Days, weeks and months may pass and we do not gather or see one another.

Funny thing about family, friends and community is that you are never more than a whisper away from one another. They will hear your whisper and come running because we are all one in the same spirit of love and unity.

I used to work everyday with my sister, Ginny, for the eight years that we co-owned a small business. When that happens, you often take for granted the meaning of friends and family because they are always around you. Suddenly after we sold the business, we rarely saw each other even though we live just 20 miles apart. However, several times over the past few years I have needed her and she has come running with arms wide open to help me.

Whether it was the use of her farmlands to bury my beloved dog, Brownie, or to supplement our food supply when her garden overflowed with a bountiful harvest, she shared it with us. These are just a few examples. Yet, time and circumstance get in the way and the weeks and months may pass and we don't get physically together.

Today, I realized that we don't need to be physically together. She is woven into the fiber of my life and is always there - even when I do not see her. Just like the verse in John 3:8, "You hear its sound…" The sound of love.

For months now, I have been grieving the sight of many in my church family also. Our church is growing leaps and bounds and we have five services. Some of my church family has even moved away and I miss them also. But, I had the occasion to speak with one of them recently and they shared with me, "We pray for you daily." Imagine that, out of sight but never out of their hearts and minds, just like the wind. You cannot see it but you hear its sound.

These are my faraway friends and family members. And, like the wind, they are always there even when I cannot see them.

Published by Michele Starkey

Optimist who enjoys writing, laughing and spreading good news. If I have but one life to live, I hope to make mine memorable. My epitaph will read: she lived, she loved, she left.  View profile

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  • Lori Gunn4/10/2012

    Back to visit - this is comforting:)

  • Patricia Burke1/26/2012

    Wonderful article. Take care.

  • Lori Gunn1/26/2012

    how beautiful and so true! You are always in my thoughts and I smile when I think of you.

  • Delicia Powers10/5/2011

    Beautiful...

  • Phyllis Wheeler10/3/2011

    Excellent

  • Sandy James10/3/2011

    This is so true. Even though we may not see them as often as we like, we know they're there.

  • Monica Lehua10/3/2011

    Beautiful, thanks for sharing. This is true when you have solid foundations of relationships in both friends and family. When I left Hawaii not knowing when I would return, very few calls, some facebook and emails. However over two years later when I went home for a visit, those friendships were strong and loving just as I left them and I am eternally grateful.

  • Sivaramakrishnan Ananthanarayanan10/3/2011

    Out of sight is out of mind, sadly for some, despite modern tools to help us stick together and be in sight! I do tend to believe also in the Chinese saying - a good neighbor is better than a distant relative. A touching article that resonates with all, Michele - siva

  • Mike Powers10/2/2011

    I really enjoyed this outstanding article. Thanks!

  • Oscar Crawford10/2/2011

    All of us are families resulting of this wind you describe are only what God can do. Always a privilege to experience your work.

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