Fighting for a Cheater..

Years ago I got hooked on watching talk shows, especially Jerry Springer. Although I don't watch them anymore they've always stuck with me. I know a lot of people think they are all made up and acting but if you look around, you see a lot of the same situations in your day to day life.

One of my favorites was the ones where a couple would come to the show so that one partner could tell the other partner that they'd been cheating on them. Let's say the husband was cheating on the wife...they'd bring the husband out, he'd confront his wife and confess to the whole thing. Sometimes he'd be cheating with a stranger, a cousin, a best friend or a relative of the wife. Then they'd bring out the woman he was cheating with. The wife and the girlfriend would attack each other fighting, hair pulling, clothing being ripped all over this man. The man, most times, would just stand back enjoying the attention of two women fighting over him.

Here's the part that would crack me up...what are they fighting over? Why would the wife want a man that cheated on her, lied to her and brought her on national TV to humiliate her? And why would the girlfriend want a man that cheated on his wife to be with her, lied to his wife about it and then humiliated her...doesn't she realize that when he's tired of her he's likely to do the same thing to her?

In these cases I'd say the best thing for the women to do is to kick the man to the curb, get on with their lives and find someone better. There's also been shows of the wife cheating and husband and boyfriend battling it out and the same reasoning applies...why would either one of them want her. Sometimes there are kids involved and that's even worse, because while the adults are acting like this, it's the kids that end up losing a parent because of the situation.

Personally, I think that if you are to the point that you are going to cheat on your husband/wife or boyfriend/girlfriend then you need to seek some therapy, counseling or just end the relationship so your free to pursue who you want without hurting your present partner. After all you're not just hurting your partner, your making a name for yourself and before long the people around you will know you as a cheat and a liar.

LIVE IN PEACE