Find Out the Truth - Study the Liar's Body Language

You watch movies where CIA agents are talking to the suspect, and one CIA agent calmly states that the suspect is lying, and that he ought to tell the truth. The suspects eyes widen, shocked, perhaps, and spills his guts. What? you may think to yourself. How did he know?

It's a seemingly superhuman ability. Maybe they can see right through you. Maybe it's the result of some secret government training that is being hidden from the public eye. While I can't say whether or not CIA agents receive top-secret-stolen-Soviet-technology-Cold-War-era training (After all, I'm not a CIA agent. Or am I?), I can definitely tell you that the general public can be taught to discern between truthtellers and liars fairly easily.

You'll want to watch their body language. The old addage that the eyes always tell the truth holds true to the rest of the body as well. Your body will always betray you somehow.

A liar will avoid eye contact. If eye contact is made, the liar will be quick to look away.

The liar's facial expressions will be timed oddly, and will usually not be coordinated with what they are saying. They may say something, and then the facial expression comes after it. In most cases of truthtelling, the facial expression comes first or at the same time the spoken words.

Also, the liar's facial expressions will be shallow; fake smiles will only engage the muscles around the mouth, and none of the muscles aroung the cheeks, eyes, or nose.

As much or more than as with their body language, you will want to pay attention to their words.

A liar will usually avoid referring to themselves as "I".

A liar will probably use your own words directly when responding to the question. For example, when the liar is asked, "Did you take my stapler?" the liar might respond, "Take your stapler? No," or something to that effect.

Excessive and extraneous details are given which may not serve to strengthen the liar's argument, but, instead, act as "filler", detracting from the topic. The liar's speech will be either much slower or much faster than normal, and will usually be monotone, even when expressing emotion.

The liar will probably avoid using contractions such as "we've" or "they've".

Attempts at humor or sarcasm may be made to refute your argument, and distorted pseudo-logic may also be used.

Syntax and grammar may be off, words garbled, and the person may make hand gestures while trying to figure at the words to say. The liar may use lots of "uh" and "er", and the like, in a subtle and ineffective attempt to bide for time.

When you are quite sure that someone is lying, there is one more test you can do to see if they really are lying.

Drop the subject. That's right. Shrug, and start talking about something else. Only someone telling the truth or a very bold liar will continue on with the subject of you accusing them of lying for very long after changing the subject. A liar will usually relax and walk off, excuse himself, or something to that effect, depending on where the accusation takes place, relieved to be out of the dangerous situation of you having possibly caught them in a lie. They will unwind and possibly forget some of their story.

Wait a few hours, and then confront them again. Make sure you remember everything they said. Ask them questions over again, especially ones that over-arch over multiple things they said. If they change their story, or struggle to remember it, or anything suspicious, hammer them on it.

Eventually they will crumble.

Now that you have been informed, you are less vulnerable to the liars and deceitful people out there. Always know the truth, and keep your wits about you.