Find Your Perfect Type of Girl

In order to discover your perfect type of girl one must start by taking a look in the mirror. You must define who you are as a person before running out and navigating your way through a crowded bar in search for "the one." You shouldn't even be looking for your perfect type in a bar anyway (but we'll get to that later). You must first look to yourself because it is important to compare the type of person you are versus your perfect type of girl in order to judge the compatibility between the two types. If you struggle with identity issues then defining yourself as a person may pose some difficulty but you can always try. Ignore that entire cliché "look deep within yourself and heart" to discover your true inner being. That stuff doesn't work. I bet you're asking yourself, "What kind of person am I?"

Think about all the good and bad deeds you've done in your life (the ones you consider most significant or those that stick out in your mind). Then think about your current perspective on life and the world around you (i.e. the things you like and dislike, what annoys you, what makes you happy, your beliefs, desires, views on people and culture vs. your own, your actions in the past, etc.).

The hardest part is being honest and genuine with yourself. Unless you are a hypocritical liar then put that down as one of your qualities. Based on your past actions and current perspectives, write down the exact qualities you have, both good and bad. Looking at this list, this is the type of person you are and are perceived as by others currently. However, people can change, and if you desire to then proceed to list the traits you would like to have and the ones you would like to lose. This list will serve as who you really are deep down inside because this is the person you are striving to become.

Next, ask yourself what qualities and traits appeal to you and what do not. Write up a list of positives and negatives and list out as many as possible. Obviously, the more you list you will narrow it down to a very specific type of person. This is your perfect type of woman. However, this list will be so specific that you will probably never find a person who encompasses every single one of your listed positive traits or one who doesn't have any of your listed negatives. Don't start weeping yet and if you have then dry those tears.

The following step is to simply numerically rank each positive trait from the ones you must have in a female counterpart to the ones you can surely live comfortably without. The same goes for the negative qualities except you rank each negative from the ones you can not have in a girl to the ones you can deal with long term. Congratulations, you now have in front of you your perfect type of girl on a sheet of paper.

Now that you know what your perfect type is you can start thinking about where to find "the one." The apparent places would be social venues such as bars, clubs, and lounges. However, it is very difficult to find your perfect type of girl at these places due to the role alcohol plays as a personality altering agent which creates an issue since you would have no idea if the girl is genuine or just acting out. I'm not saying don't look in these places just don't be surprised if it doesn't work out well.

Although it is more difficult to approach women in different settings other than a bar or lounge it is more likely that you will find your perfect type more accurately at these other venues. If not, at the very least you'll find a genuine woman and you can use this sincerity to discover and gauge her qualities easier.

Places you should consider going to in a midst of your search are bookstores, cafes, clothing stores, malls, parks, grocery stores, and other public or recreational areas. However, since these places typically have a limited amount of women to approach you will still have to tour the bars, clubs, and lounges and hope to get lucky.

Good luck.