First Blind Date Tips

Brook Johnson
Have you ever been on a blind date before? You may or may have not, but there are some real keys to dating that I have recently seen that wasn't practice. Blind dating is the almost to the worst kind of dating ( right next to speed dating) but you have to think of it as just an ordinary date and don't expect to much or too little. Dating is a hard of thing to do period so when it comes to connect to a person your peers hook you up with it a whole new ball game; but here is a few tips that may help you hit a homerun.

Tip 1: Don't expect too much or too little

When it coming to imagining a person we do it pretty well but some do it extremely while others do it so negative that they run from the thought alone. When it's coming to imagining a person just don't do it. Even if someone told you what that person look like just don't do it. If it's not a picture in your hand (recent) then just don't do it. Our mind picks up on what we like. For instance, let's say I know a girl who's 5'5, smooth skin, dark brown eyes, a nice firm rounded ass with the body to match a lot of people have their own view of what that girl might look like. The same thing for a man; tall, dark and handsome, with a nice stomach and a remarkable smile (no, I'm not describe myself...maybe). Just don't expect too much or too little from someone.

Tip 2: Talk! Talk! Talk!

When on a blind date never let your partners for the night talk too much or talk too little. You should try making the conversation go smoothly. What I notice with ladies is you expect the man to have the conversational skills while you lay back. No! It's doesn't work like that. The key to a conversation is both parties communicate. Let's just hope it's not a boring topic either one of you mention. Boring topics I can understand why a conversation goes dry but you know on a regular basic you talk a storm so why quiet the storm tonight?

Tip 3: Man, just pay

Even though it's not guarantee you'll see her again but it still count as a first date so why shouldn't man pay? Don't split the bill in half. You are there too impress her and she's there to impress you but you should pick up the check. Granted, your blind date shouldn't be at no five star restaurant (unless it McDonalds) but if it is that is your fault. Most than likely you pick the spot but if you didn't you should have done your research before entering. The ladies say chivalry is dead show them that their wrong and pick up the tab it may hurt the pocket but you should of come prepared.

Like I said these a just a few tips I think you should really considered when trying achieving success on a blind date. Like I said before dating is hard period but you have to do that to find love (unless you want to buy it). A blind date shouldn't be that bad but sometimes it is. When it really bad you just have to hope and pray the day be over soon. Well, good luck.

Published by Brook Johnson

I'm from Brooklyn, New York. I write screen plays, poetry, and a bit of articles.  View profile

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  • blondie5/21/2009

    my friend is going on a blind date, i know it may sound weird but,were 11 years old and she s never gone out on a date before . i think its because her parents r really stricked. she asked me what to do because i have expeirence with dating. So i was wondering what do u do if thers no conversation at all and its a little ocuard.

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