First Night Together- 5 Mistakes to Avoid

The first night of sex with a new partner can trigger various anxieties. Having sex for the first time with your boyfriend involves intimacy and vulnerability or at least, it brings something new in your relationship. Your first night together as a couple will make him think about what to expect from you in the future.

Follow these tips in order to make sure that your first night together won't be the last one:

1. To behave like a porn star

Obviously you want to amaze him and make a good impression. When you have sex for the first time with the man in your life, most probably you don't know him good enough to show your kinky side or your role-playing ideas. He might misunderstand your intentions and treat you differently than you expect.

2. To have unprotected sex

The first when you have sex with a guy you probably know very little about his sexual habits. Depending on the intimacy level in your relationship, perhaps you don't know yet if he's seeing other women or if he had sexual transmitted diseases in the past. After all, he might have a problem without being aware of that.

Having unprotected sex with someone you don't know very well is always a mistake. However, once you have unprotected sex with him, especially if this happens at the beginning of your relationship, he might think that you've done the same thing with your former partners. As your relationship goes further and you find out more about him, you may consider other methods of contraception.

3. To be shy the next day after you had sex

You're a big girl and you took a major decision- you wanted to have sex with your new boyfriend and you did it. It's nothing wrong with that, so there's nothing to be ashamed of. Of course, the next day may be a little bit strange, but do everything possible to remain self confident, just as you did before. Don't be afraid to kiss your boyfriend, to make jokes and hug him. If you get up from the bed, don't hide your body. Rather than giving him reasons to believe that what happened was wrong, you should make him desire you even more.

4. To stay at his place more than you should

The first time you have sex as a couple will probably bring to the surface a variety of emotions for both of you. Although you might feel the need to spend more time with him, the best is to behave as usual. If you're at his place, spend some time with him in the morning, but don't stay in the afternoon, especially if he seems to have something else to do. Once you get out of bed and drink a coffee together, tell him that you had a great time and that you have to leave now. This way you're showing him that you have a life of your own and that you're an independent woman; at the same time, you'll make him understand that you're going to spend other amazing moments in the near future.

5. To get anxious if he doesn't call you the next day after

Most men use to call their partner after two or three days from the moment they had sex- that's because they don't want to seem desperate and not because they don't want to hear your voice every night. If you don't use to talk on the phone every day, you have no reason to believe that he will start calling you daily just because you had sex.

Don't even think that he will never call if he hasn't done it immediately after he left home. However, if he hasn't called you for a whole week, you're free to get angry and eventually, think about him as being the mistake no.6: 'Never have sex with a loser'.

Source: www.SuperLoveTips.com