Five Steps Toward Making My Wife Happy

LionHeart
There is a saying that behind every man's success is a woman. However, I think I've been too busy focusing on my personal goals that I have consumed most of my time, including the times that I should've spent with my wife. I would also like to remind all the guys out there that being a husband and father is a whole lot different than just being a good provider. It's because of our loved ones why we work hard anyway.

To make my wife happy, I will:

1. Try to make her laugh once in a while. I realized that I become too serious about my goals that I am losing my sense of humor. I love to hear her laughing her heart out. I guess it's one of my strength when i was courting her so it would be great to crack a joke more often,specially when we're together, or remind her of the silliest things that we did.

2. Surprise her by giving simple gifts even during regular days. She's a cry baby. And I love to see the tears of joy from her eyes. Whenever that happens she would always say: "Sadista ka talaga!"

3. Cook her meals. I used to cook meals for her specially during weekends. But now I can't even remember when was the last time I prepared a nice meal for her. I can imagine her in the table, sitting there like a child, smiling then excitingly ask: "What's for dinner?"

4. Give her a massage. She often complaining that she has a back pain. Sometimes going home exhausted from a lot of stress in the office. A full body massage will surely make her feel good. I can imagine what happens next after the massage, he he.

5. Take her to a movie house or a dinner date every other week. I also realize that women appreciate it better when you do something with them rather than doing something for them.

Published by LionHeart

A Civil Engineer by profession and is currently working in a real estate company. Based in Las Pinas City, Philippines. Married, with one son. With 8 years of accumulated experience in design and constructio...  View profile

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  • jimson masangkay10/6/2009

    kmusta n nardz.....tgal n nting wlang contak hah....d2 me assgned ngaun s cebu......wla n meng klaro ng chess.....i hope ur always ok....ingatz nlng prti.....09053540834,....# ko yn incase n kelnganin mo 2long ko.....moral support lng kya ko.....

  • Betty Alexander12/23/2008

    What a sweet article! I saw the title and just had to read it. Since I've been a wife for many years, I thought I'd mention a couple of extra things that you could include on your list. Be a good listener to your wife. I love it when I'm telling a story to my husband and he actually pays attention and hears what I'm saying. Pay her a compliment about something when it's sincere. If she looks especially nice in that outfit, or if she did something you admire, tell her. That will bring a smile to her face too. Other than that, it sounds like you have a great plan for being a good husband. Your wife must be one very special lady!

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