Five Things a Man Wants in the Woman They Will Marry

Karl Withakay
Men want a woman who has certain traits. When all five of these traits are present, our Mrs Right indicator goes off and there is no stopping us. We're going to eventually pop the question.

Mrs. Right Indicator #1: She is exciting and adventurous.

You know how you watch a movie that is going to have a sequel and at the end of the movie, there is a bunch of questions and you anxiously anticipate the date in which the sequel is released? Well most guys want a woman that gives them that feeling. Someone who's up for anything, someone who wants to try new things. A guy want to discover new layers of his lady all the time. It keeps things exciting and new feeling.

Mrs. Right Indicator #2: She really and I mean REALLY likes sex.

Yeah, I know it's a no brainier. It's more than the ample ability and enthusiasm when it comes to sex. When a woman makes the effort to have really, great, connected sex that involves both the body and mind, she goes from an awesome girlfriend to marriage material in his view.

She tells her man what she likes, and how she likes it. This will usually get the guy doing the same thing. This creates a great connection between both of them.

If a woman thinks of creative ways to keep things exciting like a sexual competition of some sort, that kind of thing can keep a couple of going into a rut sexually and no one will ever get board.

Mrs. Right Indicator #3: He is PART of her life but he is NOT her life.

Guys like independent women. Sure we like when a girl is really into us but we don't want to be 100% responsible for her happiness. We don't want it to look like she can't live without us. We like it when a gal recognizes that we are a couple but we both retain our separate identities.

I'm my wife's husband but I'm also a guitar player and a singer/songwriter. She is my wife but she's also a freelance writer and a word smith of sorts.

Mrs. Right Indicator #4: She has her own identity but she still shows him how important he is to her.

It's true. Guys dig independent women but there is a fine line between being independent and being detached. Guys generally settle down with a woman who shows her tender side and lets him know that whatever happens, she's there for him.

Mrs. Right Indicator #5: She wants her guy to be the best man he can be.

She's not pushy but she sees her man's potential and emotionally supports him and motivates him to do his best and get it done. She brings out the best in him. That's the kind of lady that a guy wants.

So if you possess all of these Mrs. Right indicators, you shouldn't have much trouble finding a man who will be quick to hide his knee and pop the question. Good luck out there

Published by Karl Withakay

Karl is a full time 43 y/o Singer/guitarist/songwriter. He is also a self proclaimed computer geek. He builds, fixes and modifies computers. He is a US Navy, Gulf War Vet. and has worked as a CNA, a Parame...  View profile

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