Don't believe the high school hype.
Most people in high school will make you think that if you aren't dating, you're a big loser. That could not be further from the truth. The thing is that most high school guys don't ask high school girls out to marry them. What they want instead is a good time. That means that after the date or dates are over, you as a female won't be somebody's wife. You will have merely been a good time for someone. But getting a great husband takes some goal setting. You have to see yourself getting married when you enter high school. That way you won't do things to get sidetracked.
Envision the marriage early on.
The age of 15 or even younger isn't too early to see yourself getting married to a great husband. Once you have this vision in your head, subconsciously your mind will work out a way to make the vision happen. As a young girl, ask what the name of your husband will be. Think about the way he'll dress and the kind of personality he'll have. Then, before you know it, somehow you'll run into that person. But if you haven't asked yourself the questions, you won't know him when you see him.
Patiently wait.
You don't have to date around to find a great husband. He'll find you. Try to do something you enjoy, like flying a kite or reading a book. Your future husband is very likely to see you doing that hobby and want to join in. The key here is to be patient. You don't want your husband to approach you, and it turns out that you are dating someone else. Patiently waiting absolutely works. Want proof? "Good things come to those who wait."
Get prepared.
Take care of your skin, nails, hair, and teeth. Men are very visual people. Also, practice not getting overly angry with people, especially men you know. And practice forgiving people when things do happen. That way, when your husband comes, you won't be the cause of a future divorce. You will have learned to cope, forgive, forget, and be agreeable.
Have faith.
All of these things won't work if you don't truly believe your husband is on the way. If you doubt he's coming, he most likely won't come. But faith that he is coming will bring him into your life swiftly.
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2 Comments
Post a CommentBecause for a moment, I thought we were back in the early 20th century. What a complete and utter load of bovine excrement.
Wow, that is deep. I wonder if your topic will cause controversey with independent thinking women who have the thought that a man will accept me for who I am. I am happily married but I thought I'd read it anyway. Great title to attract attention. Great writing.