Five Ways a Man Should Handle a Breakup

Michelle Knudson
Men often try to fix things going the wrong route during a breakup. If we dumped you then we obviously have gave up on the relationship. Here are five tips on how a man should handle a breakup by telling you in details the things that you should not do.

Don't Send Your Ex Stuff

Women need space. We don't want to be smothered by flowers showing up at work nearly each day. We need time and the more that you send us stuff it just drives us away further. We do not want to feel that you can not live without us.

Don't Stalk Us

The most quick and fastest method to make us write you off for good is stalker behavior. No woman wants to see you following her around on a date. No woman wants to see you standing at her doorstep in the middle of the night without her invite you over in the first place.

Don't Contact The New Lover or Past Lover In Our Life

Believe me we will hear about it when you contact our new love or past lover in our life. Do not assume that can cause trouble between us since your pathetic attempts will be viewed as a jealous ex that just wants to cause trouble. You will not impress us with your attempts to cause so much trouble in our life. We will march down to the courthouse with the new love in hand to seek out a restraining order against you when you don't back off.

Don't Call Us With a Memorized Apology

Breakups are not open for negotiation in life when we have dumped you. You should remember that we walked out the door because we didn't want to be in your life anymore. We know where to find you if we decide that we want you back.

Don't Assume That We Will Miss You

You may sit and assume that in a few days that we will miss you so much that we will crawl back. I got news for you some women will never crawl back or call once they are totally done with you. They don't call you within a few days because they have found someone else or totally done with you. When a woman finally asks you to leave then it implies that you have screwed up a relationship so bad that there is never turning back.

Don't Assume You Treat Women Like Gold

Men realize that you do not treat women like gold since they leave you over and over again. If you really treated women like gold then they wouldn't of left you several times. You need to look at what you are doing wrong when you experience several women that keep leaving you. There is a reason why women continue to cheat on you or whatever that happens in your life.

Published by Michelle Knudson

Michelle is a freelance writer who has sold and published over 550 articles. Her writing strengths include, business, financial topics and relationships. You may contact her at michelle@michelleknudsonwrite...  View profile

  • Don't Stalk Us
  • Don't Contact New Lover
  • Don't Send Us Stuff

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