Flirting Tips for Men

Tell Em' What They Wanna Hear

Mr. New Material
Are you confused about how to get the woman of your dreams? If you're not confused about that, are you confused about how to approach that sexy Scarlett you've been eyeing for weeks now? Even if none of these situations apply to you, you can still use these flirting tips to get the woman you want! All of these tips are 100% Mr. New Material approved!

Have a Great Time: When approaching a woman and talking to her for the first time, be lively! This means be a bit playful and don't take yourself to serious. If you take yourself too serious, she will notice it and will immediately direct her attention away from you. You can't go wrong if you just be yourself and act a little silly, making her laugh is the first step towards great things.

Ooze Confidence: Before I go into detail about this tips, you must know one thing, this is a difference between being "confident" and "conceited". If you're a conceited person or plan on being conceited, just count out getting her attention. You may get her attention, but it sure won't be the kind of attention you want. Be in the middle of confident and conceited and you wont go wrong. When you talk, assert yourself and talk highly of yourself and accomplishments, however; pay attention not to overdue it. Make sure you poses the right "swagger" or she'll look elsewhere for a mate.

Make the First Move: They say good things come to those that wait, however; sometimes you have to be persistence and go after what you want! The same can be said when it comes to women, if you see something you want, don't be shy, go for it! Make the first move by either talking to her or going out of your way to get her attention, remember that nice guys finish last!

Throw Compliments Her Way: When you're talking to her, throw lots of compliments her way but do it in a smooth way. In no way should the words you say sound "scripted" or like you have them memorized, learn to go with the flow and compliment her on all of her great features. This doesn't mean use corny pick up lines that you may have heard, be original and most of all be REAL.

Eye Contact: This tip is first and foremost, always make eye contact. If you want any of the words coming out of your mouth to sound believable, you must look her directly in the eyes. Turning your head away as you talk to her will show her that you're either too shy to talk or not all that interested in her. Stay focused; keep your eyes on the prize!

Voice Tone: This tip may seem a little strange to those that don't understand what it means, your vocal tone means everything when you're talking to a woman. Woman stray away from men with high pitch voices and run towards those with deep ones. If you're voice isn't the deepest, it's ok, you don't have to worry, all you have to do is use your voice the right way. Don't stutter when you talk, don't scream out when you talk, just talk smoothly and calmly, everything else will come naturally.

Listen to Her: If you want to constantly keep her attention, you're going to have to show her that you're a great listener. This doesn't mean just listening and not talking, this means asking her questions about her conversation and being involved. Once she's established that you're a great listener, she will want to tell you more as well as be in your presence more often.

Stay Smiling: If you're looking to create a great conversation, smile! Even if she's in the worst mood, seeing you smile while you talk will brighten up her day. Although you plan to smile while you're talking to her, don't overdue it. Use your smile simply as an add on to enforce the great things that you're saying. Anytime you mention something about her, smile, she will feel like the thought of her makes you happy.

Published by Mr. New Material

CEO of Fiya Dro Records as well as Manager for Perfectly Pretty Models. Born and raised in the "YaY Area" California! I'm a Keep It Real Specialist, Ima tell you how it really is no matter how you feel about...  View profile

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  • 3lilangels2/18/2009

    good ones!

  • cheryl m brown2/16/2009

    You got it...the deep voice is my weakness( I guess I should say "was" my weakness, since I've been married forever) :)

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