Flushing the Michigan Friend of the Court Out of Your Life

How to Prevent FOC Involvement or Stop Them from Providing Services

Lary Holland
The Friend of the Court is a unique form of judicial employee, which only occurs in the State of Michigan, and was originally created by the Michigan Friend of the Court Act of 1919 to "...protect dependent minor children and to compel enforcement of chancery decrees where there are minor children in divorce cases, who are liable to become public charges and are not properly cared for by their custodians, and to enforce the payment of amounts decreed them in a court of chancery, and to enforce all interlocutory and decretal orders."

However, like many federally subsidized programs, managed by the states, design flaws exist to allow the state to focus programs on revenue generation instead of only aid to needy families. With these flaws nearly every case becomes a mandatory Friend of the Court case, leading to problems with service performance to needy families, privacy concerns with poorly run data management, and excessive deprivation of due process rights in the name of "judicial economy."

Many people have found through experience that it is necessary to escape the clutches of the Michigan Friend of the Court because it places parents, children, and taxpayers at risk for losing money, time with children, or other important things. I have taken the time to compile and present the necessary information that you will need to either prevent your family court or domestic relations case from being included, converted or continued as a State-managed case.

PREVENTING YOUR CASE FROM BEING AUTOMATICALLY ENTERED

It is often times easier to stop a problem before it starts, and that begins with your initial case filing. In Michigan you must plead specifically in your first filing that you do not want Friend of the Court Services and attach a motion requesting that friend of the court services not be required. You must also attach what is referred to as a Michigan SCAO Form FOC 101, also known as an FOC Advice of Rights Form, informing both parties that they can reinstate or obtain these free services at any time and practically for any reason. The Michigan Form FOC 101 must also be signed by both parties.

The following criteria also have to be met to prevent your case to prevent becoming a Friend of the Court welfare services recipient when you file your initial motion:

  • Neither of you receive public assistance for the child(ren) or requests friend of the court services.
  • There is no evidence of domestic violence or uneven bargaining position between either of the party.
  • The court finds that declining to receive friend of the court services is not against the best interests of a child.

If either of the parties in the case still wants services, unfortunately you are both still going to be trapped in the system for now.

OPTING OUT ONCE YOUR FRIEND OF THE COURT CASE WAS ALREADY ESTABLISHED

Unlike the previous prevention method for declining Friend of the Court services, once your case has already been started it is harder to remove from the State/County caseloads because each entity depends on high caseload numbers for increased federal funding through Title IV-D of the Social Security Act. Although this also is a burden to the local taxpayer, it goes often times unnoticed because of the amount of money being currently received through federal sources.

Your right to refuse Friend of the Court services has been limited if your case has been allowed to be established in an effort for the state to continue receiving federal subsidies on your behalf. None of the following may occur if you wish to exit the Friend of the Court system:

  • Neither of you receives public assistance for the child(ren) or requests friend of the court services.
  • There is no evidence of domestic violence or uneven bargaining position between you.
  • The court finds that declining to receive friend of the court services is not against the best interests of a child.
  • No money is due the state because of past public assistance.
  • No arrearage or a custody or parenting time order violation has occurred in the last 12 months.
  • Neither of you has reopened a friend of the court case in the last 12 months.

WHAT TO DO IF THE FRIEND OF THE COURT AND JUDGE DO NOT ALLOW YOU TO DECLINE FRIEND OF THE COURT SERVICES

The Judges, Friend of the Court employees, County Board, State of Michigan Employees, and all the other major associated government officials depend on the money that is received through this "Free For All Welfare Program" which means that they may attempt to find reasons not to let you out. In the event that your case is still maintained by the Friend of the Court despite your attempt to decline services, you should follow these steps.

  1. Document every contact that you have with the County Friend of the Court Agency and what the purpose of the contact was.
  1. Be sure to ask them lots of questions and continue to advocate that their services are not necessary.
  1. Share information about how you do not want County Friend of the Court services but are being forced to receive them to friends, families, and neighbors. This alerts taxpayers to unnecessary government waste programs.
  1. Each time that the County Friend of the Court office employees handle anything inappropriately, rudely, or otherwise not up to par with expectations, be sure to file a grievance with your local County Friend of the Court office, because they are required by law to respond and it counts against them when they are reviewed annually by the Michigan State Legislature.

CONCLUSION

Although the law allows parties "opt out" of receiving friend of the court services, see MCL 552.505a, the state has made it difficult to do so to protect federal subsidies. Many individuals have begun assisting others in declining services and assisting with grievances throughout Michigan and are likely available to assist if you find yourself having problems with the Friend of the Court.

Published by Lary Holland

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  • FOC Services were originally only intended for needy families but have been expanded to all cases.
  • FOC Services are hard to "opt out" of because the Judge and FOC receive funding for open cases.
  • Friend of the Court Services are automatically opened by the County office at the time of filing.
The Friend of the Court receives federal subsidies to keep your case open and managed by their office. Judges often times side with their own employee because they both receive a benefit from maintaining the case.

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  • christopher 11/18/2010

    me and my ex have come to an agreement we both have him 50, 50 i still have to pay for the birth of the child and she dont want no more child support because i have him half of the time. he is on medicade and that is it we both dont want the court in vold any more and we went threw hilldale county in michigan. how would we get the court to stop being invold.

  • paul 7/8/2010

    ha ha fotc can`t touch me!!!

  • Dave Robertson 5/19/2009

    PS: If there are any Support groups in the Lansing area I would be interested. If not perhaps it's time to start. Robertsongrand8@aol.com

  • Dave Robertson 5/19/2009

    I believe have a unique case. I have been through the ringer with friend of the court for the last three years. When my wife left me for another man I had a very serious break down. I was hospitalized and diagnosed bipolar. Because of the diagnoses and my inability to fight at the time my wife got everything. I had never gotten violent or even threatened violence yet I ended up with limited supervised visitation. At the moment my ex-wife is not even letting me see the kids. I had filed parenting time complaint forms before and FOC just sends them back telling me I have to jump through more hoops. I Love my kids more than I can say but I am at my wits end and even considering leaving the country. If any one can help please email me at robertsongrand8@aol.com

  • Lee Ann 2/3/2009

    If any one knows how to go about "opting out" once your case has been established I would appriciate some assistance. My family wants to move out of the state but we are having FOC troubles and would like to eliminate them all together. Please email me if you have any insight or if you can help. Great Appriciation, Thank You!
    leeannwalker03@yahoo.com

  • KFUnit 8/4/2007

    Excellent, written beautifully, and very informative. If only more "opted out", and judges granted so, the Friend of the Courts would become non-existence.

  • Adam 7/17/2007

    How can we petition that form FOC 101 be required with every divorce case involving children? I never knew that I could opt-out until today......Four years of being drug through the dirt by the Hillsdale County FOC. It states just under the signature lines that if you do NOT check the box, you are choosing to utilize FOC Services. However, if you do check the box, then you are opting out. This should be a required form in the file to show that the parents knew about this option.

    Form FOC 101 can be found here: http://www.tuscolacounty.org/foc/forms/aor.pdf

    What will it take!?

    Hillsdale County Friend of the Court Prisoner - Adam

    perptr8r@yahoo.com

  • Bob Van Ee 7/15/2007

    Mr. Holland's comment address those in or about to be in system. I suggest special consideration be given to Mr. Hollands opt out exclusions, which give us a heads up on what to avoid if we read it in the right context.Thought should also be given to joining with others to reform Public Policy that has seperated children from Fathers, spawned industries living off from children and spread a social cancer through our country.

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