Fondling Our Breast During Dinner is Not a Turn On!
Or is it Just Affection?
I am not a prude, however after coming home from work preparing dinner and tossing a load of laundry into the wash is just not the exact time for foreplay.
Picture this and women I know we have all been there. You're tired and slightly aggravated by all the days' events either from being home all day trying to straighten up or caring for the little ones. Or you just arrived home from work to start your second shift as mommy and wife, then your significant other walks in and as a form of affection you get a squeeze at the boob. Now what in the heck is that all about? Are we supposed to turn around and suddenly feel excited? Instead we just smile and walk away to avoid any conflicts, but what is really going on in our minds? Huh? Or after dinner as we are ready to get the kids into bed there is a grope to your breast or a touch to your butt. Hello is this a form of sexual stimulation or just an act of affection?
We do love the attention, really we do but a hug would accomplish that. The way I see it, if our significant others want to show affection a peck on the cheek would do just fine or maybe an offer to give the kids a bath and put them to bed would be more suitable. Now that would be a turn on.
Don't misconstrue this, I only write this because I hear the same story from a lot of women who say that this form of affection can be annoying only because of the timing.
Sex is a natural and beautiful act and perfectly normal especially when performed at an appropriate place. I know I have four kids. I would just love to know what is the response that is expected from these little fondles and gropes. Is it just a smile in return, or a quickie in the bathroom? I don't know. I'm afraid to ask so for now I will keep smiling and walk away and just grumble to myself in another room. Just wanted to get it off my breasts oops I meant chest.
Published by Mag Inzire
Mag is a Physician Assistant working at a local community hospital in NY. Married and a mother of four she takes pride in educating on health and wellness, but also enjoys sharing real life experiences and e... View profile
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12 Comments
Post a Comment*laughes* I don't have any kids but what we do(Anywhere btw)is I grab his penis and he grabs my boobs. Once I was so anxious for sex that as soon as he got out of the shower I grabbed his penis and squeezed until he moaned and then we had sex. We even went down to the kitchen and grabbed some whipped cream, covered each other with it and we didn't leave the bed until we had licked it all off of each other. I think the funniest part is that we filmed it and I still have the video. I watch it every day!
Personally I think many women read way to much into a simple act of expressing affection. I'm Guilty as charged, though When I pinch my wife's bare butt lightly after she awakes in the morning or gets out of the shower, I'm not looking for anything more then a slight smile. I'm also guilty of tuning the radio knobs for no more reason then they're in front of my and the opportunity presented itself. Not always is every action aimed at an immediate retreat to the bedroom, most often it's just meant as an intimate acknowledgement of the bond between us. Once you get our age, it's nice to just touch each other occasionaly.
Damn. I never knew. But then again, I've never been told not to. I'll check when I get home.
When will women realize, men are not mind readers?!?
There is nothing wrong from a man's point of view to set up his wife's mood for sex and what he does for that is not important. What is important is that he should avoid being raw or blunt and needs to do it with sensitivity.
A loving hug with a subtle sexual tone shouldn't make a women upset.
How true, how true!
you have a point. affection is great, but I don't like feeling like a piece of meat.
I guess it depends. From a man's point of view, I think it's a good thing that he still sees you as a sexual being. Maybe he's trying to work you up for later in the evening? I don't know, I'm not a family man.
It seems like a fairly innocent form of affection, unless it's just too "grabby." It could be a token of appreciation for doing the cooking, etc.? I know it turns me on a bit to see a woman cooking (and I enjoy cooking as well).
Anyway, thanks for the insight.
Good article! Imagine getting your butt rubbed while you're bent over cleaning the oven!!
I walk in and my husband slaps my ass, sometimes it makes me want to punch him :)
Mags, if you find out the true reason behind the "breast squeeze," let me know! I guess we should be happy our men are interested, but come on guys. How about a little more imagination and appropriate timing!! Anyhow, great article. You made me smile. :)