Four Reasons to Stay Single

Perhaps you already accepted the marriage proposal, started making plans, and reserved a beautiful reception hall. However, three months before the big day, you begin to seriously doubt the relationship. Even worse, you may question the depth of your love for the person. Getting married with doubts is suicidal. Many people are simply "sick and tired" of being single. Therefore, they marry the first person who proposes, or they propose to someone because it's expected. If you want a lasting relationship filled with adventure and fun, it's important to marry the right person. Some doubts are common, and often fueled by the fear of commitment. On the other hand, if you can't shake the doubts, and you start to feel physically ill - postpone the wedding.

2. Enjoy Dating

If you can't break the serial dater habit, stay single. Many people enjoy dating different people and becoming better acquainted with members of the opposite sex. Once you walk down that aisle, those days are gone. If reluctant to make changes, it's best to remain single. Developing close friendships or becoming emotionally involved with another person is not fair to your spouse.

3. Financial In-Stability

Too many people enter marriage with false expectations. They focus on the marital benefits such as living together and frequent intimacy. Yet, many people fail to focus on reality. Once the honeymoon is over, the couple must return home and support themselves financially. It's recommended that young adults live on their own prior to marriage. This way, they learn how to provide for themselves and budget money. Earning too little can quickly kill the marital bliss. Running a household entails more than making a rent or mortgage payments. Before marriage, take into account additional expenses such as utilities (gas, water, electric, telephone), groceries, transportation (gasoline, car payment), and miscellaneous expenses (credit cards, student loans, insurance).

4. Too Many Personality Flaws

If you have trouble getting along with others, consider postponing marriage. Being selfish, rude, and temperamental doesn't benefit a marriage. If any thing, it can push people away from you. Take a candid look at yourself, and ask, "Would I want to marry me?" Likewise, if your future spouse has annoying character flaws, seriously consider whether you want to deal with their attitude on a daily basis. Have an open discussion and talk about the problem. If the person doesn't show signs of improvement, or a desire to improve - move on.