The "Funeral Rules" were established in 1984 by the Federal Trade Commission, creating a national standard for the funeral industry. Funeral directors are required to tell telephone inquirers what goods and services are available, and how much they cost. When visiting a funeral home in person, the funeral director is required to present the consumer with a general price list. They must also explain what the state legal requirements (if any) are for embalming, cremation and vaults. However, there is little oversight by the FTC, and most people don't know about the requirements.
One of the most outrageous scams perpetrated by funeral homes had to do with casket seals. Instead of preserving a loved one's body, as promised, these actually contributed to the faster decomposition, and resulted in the seals and caskets actually exploding, due to activating anaerobic bacteria. There have been class action suits involving millions of dollars awarded due to body destruction.
In the latest issue of AARP, in an article titled, R.I.P. Off, Barry Yeoman outlines some of the scandals pertaining to pre-paid funeral plans. Imagine being greatly relieved because you have your funeral completely paid for, including the casket, funeral arrangements, and plots. (Many people are doing this to protect against inflation, and to avoid being a burden to their children.) So now you are assured that nothing can possibly go wrong. Unfortunately, many things are not what they seem. Audrey and Carl Brewer, of Memphis, thought they had purchased security and peace of mind for their family, only to have one of Forest Hill South's new owners initiate a press conference to announce that he was invalidating 13,500 prepaid funeral contracts, and even if the plan was paid in full, customers would have to pay an additional $4,000. Oklahoma oilman, Clayton Smart, explained, "Obviously, things were a lot cheaper in 1965. I wouldn't have bought the business if I thought I'd have to honor those contracts." (Police were on hand to prevent a riot.) It turns out, according to the Tennessee attorney general's office that the pre-need trust funds of $20 million dollars were depleted, and the money was diverted into worthless hedge funds and loans, in a company controlled by Smart's family. About a year later, he was finally charged with theft, conspiracy and money laundering in Tennessee, and he also faces charges in Michigan, where he owned cemeteries, and an audit showed $70 million missing from trust funds there. There is a happy ending though. Forest Hill is now under the control of the state of Tennessee, and has agreed to accept the pre-need contracts, and to refund any additional fees that were collected by Smart.
Those within the industry say that the problems with pre-need plans are so prevalent that they can't be overlooked. Joshua Slocum, executive director of the Funeral Consumers Alliance, warns consumers to be cautious because funeral homes do change owners, close down, or drain their trust funds, and because of problems with inconsistent state regulations, sometimes there is no remedy for those harmed by such actions. Even the funeral industry itself is aware that fraudulent practices by some are giving all funeral directors a bad name. One stated, "We funeral directors should have never been able to take money for pre-need. It's just too tempting."
This is not to say that all funeral directors are shifty, but another scam that is often employed is a bait and switch tactic. A customer will pay for a specific casket, but when the time arrives, the director indicates it is not available, and suggest an inferior quality product. Also if consumers want to cancel their contracts, many states do not require that a full refund be made. And for those who move away from their original place of purchase, it is often difficult to transfer policies.
Blatant fraud also occurs. Even though most states require that 70-100 per cent of the customer's payments for pre-need be placed in a trust account, some morticians find it too inviting to use trust funds for something else. Often consumer's can't recover the money, because like the old saying goes, "you can't squeeze blood from a turnip."
The days of the family owned funeral home are quickly fading also, and many large corporations buy out mortuaries and cemeteries, yet keep the family name, so that consumers think they are dealing with the same funeral homes that their former relatives did. In fact, the prices are often doubled.
The biggest problem is the lack of federal oversight of the funeral and death industry. As explained earlier, the Federal Trade Commission is basically involved in requiring price lists to be given, but the fraudulent practices go much deeper than that. The funeral industry, however, is a lobbyist to be reckoned with, and also a large contributor to political campaigns, so its power is staggering.
It is important to be informed on the basic prices of funeral services, plots and caskets. Do not invest in a "sealed" casket, or spend a great deal of money under pressure. Bring someone with you who is not as emotional or distraught, who can help you make the wisest decisions. Remember there are online and wholesale options for caskets these days, with fast shipping, and in place of a vocalist, recorded music is used in many services. Because of an overabundance of funeral homes, the competition produces pressure to make a large profit on each funeral, so purchase your goods and services carefully. Many churches are also available for funerals, and you can save on the cost of the mortuary chapel, if money is a concern. Some people choose direct cremation, and have a memorial service later. Others choose a viewing, and service, with cremation following, instead of burial. Still others have a plot for burial of the ashes.
There are a variety of choices available for funeral or memorial services, and many families are choosing to take part in the ceremony. Whatever arrangements you choose, a little planning and knowledge can insure that you honor your loved one's wishes and desires, without giving into unnecessary pressure tactics from the funeral providers.
Sources: http://www.aarpmagazine.org/money/funeral_rip_off.html
http://www.abanet.org/genpractice/magazine/2007/sep/estate-scamming.html
http://www.funerals-ripoffs.org/index.htm#earlier-USNews
http://www.sojo.net/index.cfm?action=magazine.article&issue=soj0005&article=000512
Published by Lonnette Harrell
I have been interested in writing from an early age. I wrote, produced, and recorded my own radio program, "Love Notes" for 9 years. It was a combination of motivational/inspirational teaching and music. My... View profile
- How to Become a Mystery Shopper While Avoiding the ScamsMost mystery shopper websites are scams. However, there is a legitimate website you can use if you're interested in being a shopper. While it's not the highly lucrative business some sites make it out to be, it can be...
Email Scams: Six Email Messages You Do Not Want to ClickYour bulk email box does a pretty good job of separating good and wanted email from the scams of unscrupulous spammer. Unfortunately, it is about as effective as a condom.- Homeowners: Beware of Foreclosure Scams You face imminent foreclosure on your house. You are afraid you will lose your home. You hear an advertisement from a company that offers to rescue people like you. Beware: There are legitimate foreclosure rescue comp...
- How to Recognize Internet Phishing and Lottery ScamsInternet scams are on the rise, and their sole purpose is to separate you from your money or steal your identity. Knowledge is vital in recognizing Internet scams. The more you know how they work, the better armed y...
- How to Avoid Scams After Natural Disasters
- How to Become a Film Extra
- The British Colonial Legacy in Modern Singapore
- Scamming the Grave: Tips to Avoid Funeral Scams
- Three Common Funeral Scams
- Rose Family Funeral Home - Simi Valley
- Funeral Pyre Design Finished for the Funeral of Thai Princess Galyani
- One industry scam involves "casket seals", which sometimes cause the casket to explode.
- Many people purchasing pre-need arrangements have been defrauded by a depletion of the trust funds.
- Another tactic is "bait and switch", where a less expensive casket is used than the one chosen.




13 Comments
Post a CommentIt is shocking how often things like this happen. A good rule of thumb is to use a consumer advocacy service such as http://www.funeralplannersinc.com to help weed out disreputable businesses and ensure that you are not spending any more than you truly want to or on services that you really didn't need.
Helpful information for sad times. Thanks for sharing.
across the state line. We have funds set aside to bury us, but they are in a POD account so the kids will have the money and not have to deal with trying to get anyone to honor a pre-paid contract.
Great article! From my experiences with funeral homes I would advise anyone not to pre-pay for a funeral. A man who lived here had prepaid for funerals for himself and his wife, then moved fifty miles away to a larger town. When his wife died, the local funeral home would not refund his money, and it was too much hassle for him to bring his wife back to town, so I think he just paid again. My friend's husband was killed in an accident in Texas when they were living there. His body was prepared in Texas, a funeral was held there, and then he was shipped back to our town for another funeral and burial. My friend had to pay the local funeral home here as much as she paid the one that prepared the body and shipped him back. This is another instance of a small-town funeral home selling to a corporation and keeping the old family name. The guy running the funeral home here is arrogant and makes no attempt to help. If I have a choice when our time comes, we'll get a funeral home from
My husband has performed (as a minister) hundreds of funerals and has helped many people during the funeral planning process. It is amazing how often the funeral brokers seem to be trying to take advantage of the situation. A really great job on this!
Very important subject!
EXCELLENT ARTICLE, MY MOTHER HAS A PREPAID FUNERAL, SHE NOW IS A NURSING HOME WITH ALZHEIMER'S AND PARKINSON'S SINCE JUST BEFORE SHE TURNED 75. SHE IS 78 1/2 NOW. I THINK I WILL BE CALLING MY COUSIN WHO HANDLES THE BILLS AND LEGAL END AND GET TOGETHER WITH HER TO MAKE SURE MOM'S PLAN IS STILL SECURE. EVEN THOUGH MY SISTER AND I TALKED WITH THE FUNERAL HOME WHEN SHE WAS ALIVE (MY SISTER), IT DOESN'T HURT TO CHECK UP ON MOM'S PRE-PAID PLAN SO MY HUSBAND AND I KNOW IF WE NEED TO BE PUTTING EVEN MORE ASIDE FOR THE FUTURE. ONCE AGAIN THANK YOU. SO MUCH HAS GONE THE LAST 4 1/2 YEARS ONE TENDS NOT TO READILY THINK OF THESE THINGS. HUGS MARY
I have recently been looking into preplanned funeral options. One thing I did not know, is how much it cost for an obiturary posting! And here I thought it was done for free!
Great article! Thank for writing about the frauds and scams in the funeral home industry.
I have heard of this more ways than one too!..sad situation to be scamed at a time like that!