Games Women Play

The art in seducing women and attracting women includes not being so vulnerable to a woman's opinion of you. I probably don't have to remind you, but if you've spent five-minutes watching family television these days, you will notice a setting how the wife or girlfriend seems frustrated with "eyes always rolling" to the clumsy antics of their man, who has a good heart, but doesn't quite get the big picture.

I'm not sure when the trend of father figure or male role model went from John Wayne's masculine belt buckle to neutered idiot falling over himself when caught poking his head in the refrigerator. I'm sure however, art reflects reality in many ways, so don't get caught up in this manufactured mass media and widely distributed expectation of how a male is supposed to act.

Moving forward, many women are simply linguistic ninjas that mastered the art of the ego death blow otherwise known as: those mind games women play. This skill has been past down from generation to generation next to hot soapy dishwater meetings and tea party gatherings; compelling our fathers, grandfathers, and their butt crack to bend over and fix the sprinkler system when they would rather be watching the football game.

Not all women know the ego death blow tactic and it's actually kind of sad. A women too nice and tolerant of unpolished men become like a poor sweet alley cat with its tattered fur that never was taught to crouch and wiggly for perfect balance before prancing on a mouse. Instead the poor alley cat is destined for a life digging food out of garbage cans. Similarly, would be the life of a woman living in a leaky house, a brown lawn full of weeds, and a drunken husband yelling at his favorite quarterback to make the touchdown. So we as men should respect (to a degree) passive aggressive mind games women play; while never holding any resentment for women using the ego death blow tactic, but should understand it so we can avoid the abuse of it.

Examples of women playing mind games.

A woman that can splice your ego with simple words would say she's dating a UFC champ if she knows your identity is rapped up in the whole tough guy image. If you fancy yourself as a brilliant doctor, then most likely her past lover is a wildly successful lawyer specializing in malpractice suits. If you think you're quite the poet, then she might mention how her college boyfriend wrote fiction for the New Yorker. All this is from an endless list. The point here is, silently in your mind where no one can see, reserve the right to be comfortable within your own skin; because by not giving a rat's ass in the most civil, sophisticate frontal-lobe cortex way ensures the highest probability of seducing women.

From the ebook "The Five Rules: How to Seduce Women"