O.K. I must apologize for the never-ending use of the word 'Gay', but really what other word could I use. 'Homosexual', hmm maybe not and while we're on the subject who thought up the word 'Gay' as a reference point for homosexuality. Gay leads to a vision of an effeminate fey little thing with a droopy hand and exaggerated hip-swinging walk, whereas terms like 'same sex partner's' or 'life partner' gives the image of a far more normal male countenance. The word 'Gay' has become synonymous with things that are ineffectual, pathetic, pointless or useless. Like a grown man shaving his armpits (gay) or listening to Barbara Streisand (gay), crying at the movies (gay), drinking lite-beer (gay), opening up to his buddy's at work (gay), dressing up in a Star Wars Storm trooper outfit (gay), saying things like 'we're all winners' (gay) or singing along to Abba's 'Dancing Queen' (gay) and so the list goes on.
It is a curious thing that once men become imprisoned that the act of same-sex sex and or rape isn't considered gay at all. No, no, my no! That wouldn't do would it. To offend the delicate sensibilities of all the murderers, rapists etc. that are holed up across America & to infer that man on man sex in Prison is about as gay as gay can be. And that's pretty gay my fine feathered friends. There does seem to be a curious (get out of 'gay' free card) that prison inmates automatically pick up when they enter our fine electrically fenced establishments. A most curious law that holds its moral principles within the walls of the prison block, whereby those inmates who do bugger, roger and otherwise sodomise other inmates (be it consensual or not) manage to avoid the apparent stigma of being marked 'gay'. In an ironic twist of fate these are the same people who would probably beat up and/or rape any gay man who might find himself likewise incarcerated which is ironic in the worst possible way.
Published by Mark Carter
I'm a Brit living and working in New York. I enjoy music. Perhaps too much according to my wife and the ever increasing amount of space my CD's & records take up. My aim in life is to be happy and as every... View profile
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