Gay Men Are the New Oppressors of Women

Xian So So
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I've changed my mind about supporting gay men in gaining any rights or status in our society. For the past couple of years I've noticed a disturbing trend of women being abused and oppressed and disrespected by gay men.

I'm seeing gay men attack women in the work place, attacking them verbally and leaving them in dangerous situations simply because they hate women and view them as competition for mates. This blasphemy is the absolute last thing that women need, to have gay men making their lives more difficult.

I've repeatedly witnessed gay men disrespect and mistreat women by making passes at husbands and boyfriends, directing hostility and open aggression towards women and turning normal outings into stressful and hurtful excursions. I can no longer support this minority because they're harming women and in a world that is already openly hateful of females, this is catastrophic.

As gay men gain power and status it's at the expense of women; without female support for gay rights, queer men would never gain acceptance and now they've betrayed the very group that has helped them up. After the vile behaviour I've seen consistently exhibited by gay men towards women, they can go back into their miserable closets.

Over the past several years I've experienced and listened to my friends recount one hostile encounter after another with gay men, the last straw was last week. A good friend wrote me and told me that she went to a book store with her boyfriend of five years and the two of them found themselves being swarmed by several gay guys who followed her boyfriend around and physically bumped her aside and out of the way; her boyfriend is a shy, quiet man who didn't quite know how to react except to grab her get out of the book store. My friend said she felt reduced to a piece of expendable garbage and she felt attacked and unsafe; like being mugged in a New York back alley by a group of thugs.

I am disgusted and repulsed with gay men. This is one story in dozens like it and I think as a society and as women we may have made a mistake supporting gay men, I think these self-serving, self-worshiping misogynists manipulated females to get their own needs men and now their true colors are coming through. Now that they've gotten what they want from women, they're throwing us away like a soiled rag.

A disturbing trend I've noticed is hostility in the work place from gay managers towards women; women are getting injured and their pleas for medical attention are ignored, male co-workers are sexually harassing women on the job and gay supervisors are ignoring and even encouraging the behaviour in order to remove women from the workplace entirely. There is a blatant absence of any caring towards the safety and well being of women and a flagrant apathy towards female existence itself; I find it reprehensible and vulgar that gay men are jealous of women because they mate with men and then behaving in a way that harasses, frightens and hurts women.

We've created a monster, another enemy and now he needs to be shoved back into the dark recess of his ugliness.

The main reason I used to support gay rights is because I wanted women protected from gay men who were closeted because they tend to abuse their wives and families; I wanted women to be safer in their domestic relationships. The unintended consequence is that women are LESS safe in the world and LESS respected by the very group we helped free.

I'm fully aware there are sweet gay men but, not enough and the vast majority are a menace to womanhood and consequently a danger to children and I will not stand for that and I will not support that for another minute.

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  • alex4/27/2011

    hahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahhahahhahahahaha
    get a life lmao

  • Davy2/23/2011

    Who cares about women?

    All you hear is women this and women that. Its really f*cking annoying now. To hell with women, i cant even believe an article like this has been written.

    Women are the least vulnerable people in society. They suffer less violence (truth), less crime, less homelessnes and less unemployment. To hell with them! They have no business hanging around Gay men for cheap strip shows and hot sex stories.

  • Spikes, Chains, Bullets, Leather N' Metallized Blo9/29/2010

    L or old (that doesn't mean that I think of them any differently). They even laugh at my love for military and world history. I've ran into so many that say "I love death metal" when they can only mention mainstream stuff that been bought out by the Hot Topic abomination (Cannibal Corpse and Deicide). I've only ran into two girls that where into real metal acts (which was in Stockholm, Sweden) such as Cancer, Nocturnus, Destruction, Sodom, Kreator, Master, Nunslaughter, Convulse, Morbid, Nasty Savage, and Sarcófago. I grew up in the death metal capital known as Tampa, FL, so I do have high expectations when it comes to a certain common musical interest. Aside from my kindness towards helping people of domestic violence, I live my life by the old school code and WILL NOT CHANGE FOR ANYONE! If girls my age can't accept that, then their Twilight obsessed mouth can kiss my ass. A big majority of my female friends are 30 on up and they're awesome. So why I give a care what some little twat

  • Beth K9/16/2010

    I'd just like to say thank you to you form the bottom of my heart for writing this article. I was married to my husband for almost 2 years before it finally clicked that he was in love with his best male friend. He has been extremely rude and abusive to me as has his friend. I am in the process of getting my ducks in a row to leave this miserable human being and rebuild my life. It can happen to anybody. I always considered myself streetsmart as I had been on my own since I was 19 and lived in the city and held a decent government job. I am now 50 and can't believe how blind I was? I do believe there are good in every group but unfortunately, I seem to have gotten mixed up with not so nice company.

  • izzychick399/9/2010

    Gays are just like any other social group; some of them are nice and awesome, and some of them are assholes. We need to learn to deal with this and not discriminate based on isolated incidents. There will ALWAYS be assholes, everywhere you go, the majority of them HETEROSEXUAL.

  • sparker6/21/2009

    I think you tapped in to an undercurrent here. A lot of women feel the same way but are afraid to appear prejudiced while experiencing similar maltreatment from gay men. It's like, "Hey, we thought you liked us!" But sadly, I think you're right. The human need to have power over another has surfaced. And I guess straight women are on the bottom of the PC list--once again.

  • lacy connelle6/21/2009

    This is an amazingly bold article, with a lot of commentators missing the point. I had a gay male boss with a lot of power in his job where most of the employees under him were women. He made constant belittling sexist comments to me because he knew he could get away with it. After all, he was gay and it wasn't exactly sexual harassment as defined by antiquated rigidly defined hostile environment rules of the post-Anita Hill workplace of the 90s. I put up with it because I needed a job and knew when tested the company and HR with its push on "diversity" would side with him. After all, being white, heterosexual and a woman as it turned out had no value. I found that out when I complained about him on my way out the door. They protected him and this was a law firm. I was the one driven out of a job. I see now I was a threat to him, not for my partner, as he already had one. It was that I'm attractive, smart, personable, keep my business to myself and was extremely competent at my job.

  • Melanie Teegarden6/20/2008

    i had a gay boss once who was a real jerk toward women, but he was a serious exception to the rule. people are people - there are gay jerks and straight jerks, and being a jerk has nothing to do with them being gay. just like being a permanent victim has nothing to do with being a woman or a minority, it's just how some people prefer to set themselves up in the world. i have been treated in the manner stated above (disrespectful flirting with spouses/boyfriends, cattiness, pushing aside, etc.) by far more WOMEN than gays, and i have been treated rudely by far more black people than any other group, but that doesn't mean i'm going to paint all women or all blacks or all gays with one big brushstroke. jerks are jerks, they get the chip on their shoulder in any number of different ways and it's never ok. maybe you should check your own shoulder, lady.

  • moondrop6/15/2008

    I am extremely dubious of this claim as I find that gays (men and women) to be of a much higher caliber citizen than those on the "average" person list

    They hold better positions, own more capital, are good neighbors and are politically active fighters in the name of freedom

    I don't think you are going to garner much support for this claim aside from haters and the brain dead which is in essence no support at all

  • K. D. Adams5/27/2008

    You have GOT to be kidding me. Now your saying that gay men are dangerous to women and children. Are you completely retarded or just stupid enough where you can't see past your own ignorance. I read the whole article, twice, as a matter of fact and it still comes off as a hate speach. Saying your "disgusted and repulsed by gay men" is exactly what the other hate groups say. So don't give me this bullshit that your some kind of hero because you have a gay friend and that gives you the right to publish this garbage. I sure as hell wouldn't want someone like your protecting my kids if this is how you feel. YOU, my dear, disgust and repulse me!

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