Get the Look that You Want

We have all heard that imitation is the most sincere form of flattery, and that is fine when we are teenagers. As we get a little older, we discover that the celebrities that we emulate are imitating other stars, (think Lady Gaga impersonating Madonna). To truly feel beautiful, we need to embrace our own personal styles. Where is the fun in looking like everyone else? There are some ways to get the look that you want without feeling as though you are playing dress-up.

If you are ready for a new look that compliments your personality, there is one makeover site that stands out above all of the rest. Daily Makeover (www.dailymakeover.com) offers all of the how to advice, expert tips, and updates that the other sites offer, with an exceptional Virtual Makeover feature. You can upload a picture of yourself and "try on" various hairstyles and cosmetic looks in the comfort of your own home. This feature allows you to choose the styles that you want, without being coerced by friends or stylists. It is also a lot of fun.

At one time or another, we have all had to explain what we wanted to our stylist. This does not often end well. Since most of us are not versed in cosmetology lingo, we end up asking for styles like "The Rachel", or picking something out of dated hairstyle catalogs. The best way to communicate (in exact terms) the style that you are considering is to bring a picture of the look along to your salon appointment. While the picture may be of a celebrity, knowing exactly what you are looking for can help you and your stylist decide if this look can work for you. There are questions that are vital when considering any hairstyle. You should ask your stylist if this style will work for your face shape, hair texture, and hair color. Ask about the level of maintenance that this hairstyle will require. You may have to make a few modifications, but by being specific, you are more likely to walk out with a hairstyle that does you justice.

When looking for a cosmetic style to suit your personality, trial sizes can save the day. There is no worse feeling than spending money on cosmetics that you will not use and can't be returned. Sephora (www.sephora.com) offers 3 free samples of your choice with your order, so you can purchase you basics and try new product at the same time. Another great place to look for trial sizes and samples is your favorite department store cosmetics counter. Don't be shy about asking for the samples, the cosmetics companies provide them to increase sales of new products.

If you want a total makeover, you can visit cosmetic counters like Estee Lauder (www.esteelauder.com), Lancome, and Clinique (www.clinique.com) for makeovers and product suggestions. Mary Kay consultants also offer makeover parties (www.marykay.com), and having a party with friends to try on and purchase new products can be an excellent way to spend an evening and get constructive feedback.

When choosing colors, we have to be objective. For example, I love red, red does not love me. To solve this problem, I choose crimson accessories like handbags or shoes to compliment what I am wearing. As long as the red accessory is not too close to your face, there is no clash.

We all have the right to define our own personal style. We don't need to be bound by the images that have been made acceptable by the A-list. Each one of us is different, and that is the true definition of beauty. The most important thing to remember is to do what makes you feel good. Mistakes are made, and can be corrected. This is part of the fun of having your own unique style.