Give Grandparents a Heartfelt Gift for Pennies While Creating a Family Tradition

Mona Loeser
As the holiday season approaches and you begin to worry about how you will make your budget stretch to buy gifts for everyone on your list keep in mind that for grandparents the sentiment is usually a lot more important than the cost of the gift. Today, busy families often overlook the value of creating family traditions, which bring a unique and special cohesiveness to your family. Here is a way to inexpensively present grandparents with a sentimental gift while creating a family tradition.

Everyone has a camera

I'm sure you are taking pictures all years round and don't think much about giving pictures as a gift anymore. Today the camera is in your phone and you can take a picture of anything at any time. But the old fashioned pictures that we used to pose for seem to have become a thing of the past. People just don't take the time to formally be photographed. Start when your child is born and take a posed picture with the grandparents.

Make it an annual event

Every year at the same time take the same picture. Whether it's a birthday or anniversary or holiday, make the taking of this special picture a tradition. As you have other children decide whether to include them in this picture or create a new one. You may want to do both. And also consider whether you want to be in the picture. Pose everyone in the picture in exactly the same position every year.

Let your child make the frame

Kids are always making picture frames in school. The nice thing about it is that it's an activity you never out grow. As you age the frames become more sophisticated, intricate and creative. One year the frame is popsicle sticks and a few years later it's pressed flowers or wood turned on a lathe.

The formal hanging of the gift

Present the gift each Christmas. Knowing that it will be revealed at Christmas will create excitement and anticipation. It would be nice if the entire family was around. And then together all of you hang the picture next to the one from the year before. As the years go on the wall will become a visual expression of their love and your child's growth and maturity both physically and creatively. Hopefully grandparents will live long enough to see your child's child added to the picture.

Family traditions make strong and healthy bonds among family members. It's just this type of bonding that help families get through difficult and troubled times. Grandparents want to be included in their children's lives and the stress and chaos of most families today often doesn't leave much time for grandma and grandpa.

So create a tradition, make the holiday extra special, make grandparents feel loved and remembered and do it all for pennies. This is a gift that will last for generations.

Published by Mona Loeser

A social worker with 25 years of experience in mental health, corrections, substance abuse, community relations, private practice and divorce mediation, as a community liaison,working with military families...   View profile

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