Go for Independence: Women Let Go!

Women are independent now and that's great but is there such thing as too independent? Do you ever wonder why some women hold men to real high standard? Is it because some women feel so insecure about themselves that they need a real high maintenance man to feel that void? Well, maybe it could be all the above.

Women are beautiful and strong creatures but when it being strong too strong? Men are too strong most of the time. What I mean by too strong? For instance, some men don't cry because they think it a sign of weakness and weakness equal failure. The same goes for some women; being too strong for a woman is not admitting to certain weakness they have. You may think that real strength but it's not. It's actually a fear; a fear of being vulnerable. No one wants to feel like their feelings are too open so we put a "lock" on it, some greater than others.

Women and dating is a real issue in this day society. Why? It's because women aren't choosing between characteristics anymore, they're choosing with occupation, outer appearance, and education. I'm not saying there is anything wrong with this method but sometimes it does get overboard. For instance, how many women would date a guy that flips burger in McDonalds? Or how many women think a guy that didn't go to college is an ignorant man? It's a lot. It's no longer first impression; it's first appearance. Society bring upon people that you should have a certain education level and certain things to have so you won't be recognize as a "waste" and some women follow that.

Are women insecure? Ninety percent of women are insecure. Why? Like any other species there is "your other half" and for human beings it sure is hard to find your other half. Women probably been through a lot of "no good" men so eventually they give up and become insecure in themselves and other men. Women insecurity is a very delicate thing but it could be really use in the wrong way. Some women will direct they insecurity at a man and pre judge him. Yes, she may have gone through a lot and yes she have the right to be caution but no she does not have the right to make a perfect stranger the bad guy from a simple look.

Women are independent and it's a beautiful thing but women just let some things go and relax. You don't have to live on the "edge of your seat" forever. There are many rude and backstabbing in the world but the small percentage that are good needs your respect and love. Stop denying your heart because your brain builds your wall up for you. Think with both and you'll see no one is truly independent. Everybody needs somebody sometimes.