Golden Recipe for Happy Marriage

Love doesn't make the world go around. Love is what makes ride worth while----Franklin P Jones
Marriage is not just bringing two people together, but bringing two families in one knot. So it is responsibility for both the partners to see the marriage going strong. Therefore following tips are to be remembered:

Faith
In marriage faith between two partners plays very important part. Both the partners should have firm belief and trust on each other. Faith is an immeasurable term. It is a binding between two totally different individuals. To adjust and believe one another. In our society two of them come together and meet without knowing much each other before marriage but it is the faith which keeps the marriage going. What ever happens between the two, should not shake the faith and trust among them. It is the trust and faith alone which will keep the boat (marriage) floated. Let any kind of hurdle come between the two, their faith should stand like Himalaya. Then only they can see rough seas.

Compromise
Most important aspect of marriage is compromise. Between the two partners ego should not come on their way. Both the partners view point should be taken before taking any decision. Even if any time ego comes on their way, one of the partners should compromise. Marriage is a place of compromise without hurting each other feelings and sentiments. In the event of misunderstanding leading to a fight, try to solve the problem before it goes out of the house. Your fights should not linger longer, one of you should take steps bring to an end. In such situation each partner should move one step forward and give up one thing (compromise) at such situation.

Commitment
Vital ingredient in having happy and making your marriage strong depends on your commitment for each other. Institution of marriage also advocate the same thing. So to make your marriage strong you have to build trust and slowly develop it in to strong commitment. You should be always be with your spouse in Joy,sorrow, good times bad times , in Good health or in bad health. Your commitment towards your marriage will ultimately develop in to strong bonding and which in turn grow in to strong and happy marriage.

Always respect each other
It is normal for a couple to have difference of opinion and may end with fight, but remember to respect each other. Never shout at each other, this will only lead any outsider to interfere. Both are important and equal individuals. In this modern era since both are working try to help and give respect to each other.

When you find that you are not able to control your emotions leave the room without saying a word and remain in the other room till you have calm down. This will help in reduction of the tension and with time you can solve your problem.

Taking Blame
Some times the situation may arise in such a way that you may have to take the blame on yourself. And write a note on bath room mirror saying "I am Sorry". Or leaving a small message with super glue saying" My heart is broken because of the fight, can you help me to glue it back together".

Love is the Triumph of imagination over intelligence .-Henry L Mecken

Preparing a nice dish
It is some times beneficial to keep your marriage strong, by preparing a favorite dish for your partner. You may have to get the recipe from your partner's mother or grand mother and prepare and serve it, so that you give a feeling that you care for your partner.

Taking for a shopping spree
It may sound funny but some times your partner loves doing shopping, so you can take active participation in the act or lend your credit card for this purpose. You may suggest a particular dress to your which she or he likes. This gives your partner joy and will help you in binding your marriage strong.

Admiring your partner
It is a good practice to admire your partner how well he or she looks or how well he or she is dressed. This will help to break the monotonous life. Bring love and it will also help to come closer. When you compliment your partner it will boost their confidence. Your can compliment on their cooking, outfit, their success or how well they treat others.

Outing
Some times it is a very good idea to go out for an outing, to your partner's favorite restaurant or eating joint. Take your partner on a romantic journey or long drive and have fun and frolic on your way back to home. Bring your nostalgic movements in memories, where both of you have enjoyed. This will bring romance back into your life.

Leaving Love Messages
It is great idea to leave a love message to your partner through voice mail or send a text message telling your partner how much you love and care about. You can send a nice card with your signature on it, describing your emotion, love or each other.

Do Romantic things Every Day
To bring love back you should do every day one romantic thing which is different from your earlier ones . Wake up every day and bring one surprise item or a deed which will make your partner life easy. Or put a note on your bathroom mirror which will say how much you love your partner. Put a flower in the dining table with a note " I Love you". Send emails showing how much you Love your spouse.

Helping in doing Daily routine Jobs
It is always advisable to help each other in daily routine jobs. Like helping in making bed, cleaning dishes, giving helping hand in preparing breakfast. Dressing your child to school. Giving helping hand in selecting dress or those small things which will be helpful as well as ease the burden. Like Dusting, putting the toys and books back to the self. Keeping children room tidy. These small things really create the atmosphere of Love & trust for each other.

Love is giving away, freely, without any motive, without any expectation. Love is never ending ocean the more you give the more you are filled with, by the waves of love. Love is friendship set to music. Love before marriage or after marriage should be binding with an invisible thread and sets an example like the love between our great Father of nation Mahatma Gandhi & Kasturba Gandhi who dedicated their lives for the nation together with bounds of love for mutual.