Grandparents - the Lost Generation

Why would such a glories tradition fade? Could it be our society lost the true meaning of going to grandma's house? Or could it be that our grandparents are now playing the mom and dad role?

When I was little, I loved going to see my grandma. She was up on a pedestal and nobody could tell me different. I've never tasted anybody who could cook as well as she. And in her eyes, I was a true artiest. No matter what I colored, it was beautiful! She always made me feel so special and loved. I never new she had her own troubles that she kept to herself. I just knew that I loved her and I was eager to please her. I will always cherished the memories I have of her as she never spoke an unkind word of anyone. Nor, did she ever make me eat that last bite. I aways helped her in the kitchen as I knew she worked so hard to cook us such a tasting meal.

What happened? People grew up and while they grew up society changed. The way we think is not the same. Children of the grandparents are now grandparents. Since it takes a two-family income, the grandparents are now watching the grandchildren. It cost so much to survive that we need their help! A single parent, now lives with them because they can't afford a place of their own. The grandparents have taken on such an important role. They are now financially supporting their children and grandchildren.

We, should be totally grateful to our parents and grandparents, for taking on such an important role! I don't think I ever imagine having to depend on them as much as I do. When I was in financial ruins, they bailed me out so many times. They never once, made me feel guilty for needing help. That is love! I appreciate them so much! But what about society, do they appreciate the way they should? I feel society expects help, expects a handout, and forgets how hard they work! They were there at the beginning, in the middle, and up to now.

Can we ever repay them? Probably not, but grandparents don't look for money as repayment. They look for love and respect. So many grandchildren have lost that ability!

So the next time you see a grandparent in the park with their grandchildren, stop and embrace the love of a grandparent. Relish the memories you once had and take note that you need to show love and appreciation to your grandparent as they, one day, won't be there.