Halloween: Is it for Real?

Settling Your Fears About Halloween

Shari Transue
Halloween celebrations and activities are often a hot topic of discussion; many religious beliefs come into question and debate. Some parents would prefer that their children not participate in Halloween celebrations at all - because of its pagan roots - and its focus on things that children fear; death, witch craft and evil. Learning how to identify that fine can be tricky. However making them too fearful or sheltering them can have negative affects later in life - they may become to curious with out proper explanations.

However, Harold Myra has written a children's book about children's questions and parents concerns about Halloween. In his book Halloween Is It for Real?, Myra discusses how the ancient Pagan roots and recent Christian beliefs have evolved the holiday into a more toned down and religious celebration. When you introduce Halloween to children, they see the role play, the costumes, the colors, the candy and the fun. Young children need not be introduced to the morbid versions of the holiday. Sure you may want to slowly introduce the roots and history as they grow and mature. But while they are younger let them celebrate and socialize with their friends.

No one can argue that a family day at the local pumpkin patch for a hayride and hot dog roast doesn't warm your insides - like a cup of hot cocoa or cider. Focusing the days on family funs and games will ease your mind about the holiday's origins. Don't fear telling ghost stories or spooky tales - surely with the proper grounding your little ones will learn that God's Holy Spirit is their constant comfort and protection (2 Timothy 1:7). There is nothing to fear.

Rightfully so, many Christian and faithful parents have a reason to fear for their children's safety. Not just at Halloween, society has changed and there are more dangers coming to light and parents have a reason to be concerned. Halloween is minor compared to all the challenges and fears that will be faced as children grow into adolescence and adulthood. Keep them grounded and pray for their safety. Don't let Halloween scare you - or them. Happy Halloween and Trick or Treat safely!

Published by Shari Transue

Shari is a resident of Emmaus, PA, graduate of Keystone College, La Plume, PA, a former preschool teacher & child care director; she LOVES teaching children, working with teachers and parents, reading child...  View profile

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