Have Better Sex

Sex is a very personal thing. Everyone likes to be touched differently and are into different sexual things. So writing an article about better sex is very subjective. i hope that everyone can at least take something from this article.

A strong relationship does lead to better sex (I know that having sex with a new person is exciting and thrilling) yet onestly it can not compare to having sex with someone you know, love and TRUST. Yeah that is the key to a strong relationship TRUST. Now I know that some people are thinking trust like "oh he would never cheat on me" In a sense of faithfulness and trust. Yet for an man and a woman that isn't exactly the TRUST I am talking about. I am thinking of more along the lines that for a woman she needs to know she can TRUST the man she is having an intamate relationship with, with her emotions. If she knows that he loves her and would never want to hurt her, sexually she can relax and try new exciting things or expand on the things you do. For a man TRUST is those loving eyes. Where your woman cares about you and looks at you like you are her hero. Remember those eyes that used to glance at you from across a room lock on yours and when caught there would be a slight smile followed by a bluss and look away of the eyes. Those are the moments that you wish there was nobody else in the room so you could pounce on each other.

So now that you have the strong relationship how do you get the better SEX! Focusing on each other and helping each other achieve an orgasm is incredible. If timed together it can be mind blowing. ( At least for a girl) This is where this article might not apply to you, if you are into different stuff. I love to try different thing yet I think I am very traditional in the things I love. For me it is about the tender touch on my body, the way a hand glides over my smooth skin. Telling my significant other exactly what I like and what doesn't do a lot for me. I love when my man cups the back of my neck and pulls me closer to himself then bites my neck seconds before I orgasm it sends completely different feelings through my body. It is a personal thing what works for one person might not work at all for someone else that is why communication is important. The only person to blame if you are having bad sex is yourself, talk to each other and things can only get better.

Being honest and thinking about each other and how you can make this sexual experience the best is going to make sex better and better. Now remember this takes time...which is hard if you have kids and jobs. But once you get started time disappears. Also the more you do it the better and faster you get at relaxing and achieving an orgasm. Heres to building a strong relationship and Better Sex!