Having a Baby Shower for a Second or Third Child

Mrs. Renee
With each new baby there comes new experiences, and of course new baby gear. But do you feel it is OK to give a second time or third time mom and dad another baby shower? Well of course this would be a personal opinion, but what is really wrong with another baby shower? They are a great longtime tradition. Of course the first baby shower is always when you get the most items because you have nothing and need everything. And of course if your second child is a different sex than the first you will need even more stuff all over again.

You will not believe how intense this debate has actually become with many parents today. If you talk to the moms however they will definitely tell you they appreciate every baby shower. Of course it also depends on how much time has passed since their last baby. For example if it has been three years or more than they have probably gotten rid of all the baby stuff they had and will need new baby stuff. This is especially true if they were not planning on having any more children. It is also possible that your first baby wore out all of the baby clothes and toys and you can not pass them on to your next child. Regardless of the circumstances most parents love the attention and each child should be welcomed to the family.

If this is not their first child you will want to think more about necessities instead of cute. For example when it comes to room decorations they may not really be necessary especially if they will be sharing a room with a big brother or sister. When it comes to breastfeeding supplies, every mom will need new stuff with each baby. Especially when it comes to bottles, and breast pumps. Most of the time the nipples on the bottles will wear out after time. The same goes for the breast pump. Of course there are also the diapers they will definitely need a ton of those.

Another thing that second and third time parents will need is bath supplies. Most of the time people will get a baby bath kit that will include wash clothes and shampoos and various other bath time items. Even though they may not need a lot it is always nice to have keepsakes for each individual child. Most people will get picture frames or a baby book. When it comes to toys however most second time parents do not need a lot of these, of course it still depends on how long ago it was that they had their first child. Last but not least there is mom who has endured nine long months of pregnancy. Moms can always get a little pampering and believe me they will definitely appreciate it.

So the bottom line is there is nothing wrong with having a separate baby shower for each child. This does not mean that the same person has to give each shower, but a shower can be hosted by a different person each time. That new baby deserves just as much attention as the others.

Published by Mrs. Renee

Renee is a stay at home mom who homeschools, and a wife, who has been writing for a number of years on a variety of parenting, and education related topics. These topics include homeschooling, travel, and p...  View profile

  • That new baby deserves just as much attention as the others.
  • Moms can always get a little pampering.
  • It is always nice to have keepsakes for each individual child.

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  • Julie6/23/2009

    I have 2 children. My oldest of course got a baby shower, but my second did too even though they were only 18 months apart b/c they were different sexes. My youngest is now three and my husband and I are planning on trying for another child next year. Although I don't expect a shower for the third one, I would REALLY appreciate it. Just because the parents have more kids doesn't mean the new baby doesn't deserve new things. I have been to the baby showers of others who are on there fourth or fifth kid and I love it! A baby should be celebrated, each one, individually, IMO. I am more than happy to buy a special gift for each new bundle of joy. It doesn't have to be expensive! It is just a celebration and something that will help the parents out in the long run. If you really love the family, you should be happy to do it!

  • Dani5/30/2007

    I think that if your last baby shower was more then a couple of years ago then having another one would be great. If you recently had a child and shower then try not taking your family and friends for granted!

  • Sarah Mack12/9/2006

    I am a mom and I am pregnant for the third time. My friends and family had a shower for my oldest daughter (she is now 6) and my second daughter who is now 2. My friends and family already told me regardless of the sex they are having another shower for me for this one due in July. I personally will not be registering for large items because obviously I already have all that, but I will be registering for things that are needed over time. I didn't keep my bottles from two years ago etc. I personally feel it is totally up to the individuals who want to throw the shower. It doesn't have to be elaborate like the first or the second, its just a reason to celebrate the life of a child. For those that feel it's "greedy" etc...I only have one thing to say: STAY HOME!

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