High Sex Drive or Could it Be Sexual Addiction?

When Having Sex Too Much Becomes a Problem

Londa B.
There are many people that complain their spouses 'tear them apart' and then there are others that are on a 'waiting list' to be pleasured by their partner. Well we all know that some people have high or either low sex drives. This is a very important topic to discuss when you meet that potential 'love of your life'. While many bark out that sex is not everything, trust in the fact that it still matters! Find out what your partners expectations in regards to having sexual intercourse may be before proceeding with the relationship.

How can you tell if your lover has a sexual addiction?

Cheating! While the individual may still be in love with you, like any other addiction it will cause the individual to go outside of the ZONE to get what they want. This act makes you feel as if your not meeting their sexual appetite, which hurts your self-esteem and confidence in the bedroom.

NOT RESPONSIBLE! All senses of being responsible and focusing on doing the right thing has flown out the window.

LYING- The individual has broken promise after promise and now all trust is gone. The foundation of your relationship is beyond repair.

HIGH RISKS- Leaving his/her job to have sexual encounters with strangers is deadly for the both of you. High risk of diseases being transmitted is your number one concern.

More to follow include:
Can't keep on schedule because individual is pre-occupied with sexual activities or thoughts.
Not being able to control sexual impulses
Too much time having sex or healing from sexual experiences
Sexual thoughts and acts take over the individual and makes them unable to do anything else in their daily activities.
Anxiety, Mood-swings, and irritability

If you know of a loved one that may be going through this, seek counsel for them. Like always the hardest part is on the individual to admit that he/she has a problem.

Published by Londa B.

Londa B. hails from the "Show me State" She is a three, soon to five (two releases due Spring 2011) author, owner of Aminia Books and Purposeful Publishing. She is also the founder and CEO of Mind over Matte...  View profile

  • Sexual disorders and high sexual drives are two different issues.
  • Sex should never be painful, or leave a lover down trying to heal.
  • Having a partner with a sexual addiction is like being with a drug addict. THEY ARE BOTH DANGEROUS HABITS!
Many couples break-up or divorce on the account of their partners desires to have sex almost constantly.

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