Home education is an option many families choose. It is widely utilized throughout the country. There are currently around two million home-schooled children in the United States ("Tim Tebow Bill"). Parents choose to teach their children at home for a variety of reasons, including: perceived better education at home, poor learning environment in the public schools, religious concerns, to develop character in their children, or for specific family values in general. Parents feel that they can provide a better education in the home because discipline problems are nonexistent, which means the teacher is not having to take away from valuable class time in order to discipline a particular student. Home-schooled children can be successful, and numbers continue to rise. In 1994, there were 345,000 students, with that number rising to 850,000 by 1999 ("Home School Statistics"). The two million students who go to school at home in the present day make up about 3% of all kindergarten through twelfth grade students in the country. Studies show that home-schooled children also do better on standardized tests ("Home School Statistics").
It is true that parents can provide a quality education for their children at home and create a good learning environment for them. But what about the stresses that this teaching role takes on them as parents? They must have a vast understanding of the subjects they are teaching their children, which requires a large amount of studying in most cases. Parents do not have time to themselves and are unable to work, which may create relationship strains at home. Home education may create a good environment with less disciplinary problems, but what if the parent and child get into a disagreement away from the school setting? What if it becomes a situation where the child or parent does not want to talk to the other one for a certain period of time? Aside from that, everyone periodically needs freedom and alone time. It creates healthy relationships, especially among parents and children who are already around each other so much anyway.
A home education does provide a good environment for children, but not the one that they need during their later life experiences. It simply pales in comparison to the public school and all the activities it provides (Romanowski 4). There are numerous activities besides sports, such as band and other student-run clubs and organizations. Children cannot participate in activities of this kind if they are going to school in their kitchens. Children also need to be exposed to different kinds of people during the high school years. This allows a child to know what kind of crowd they want to hang out with, and also allows them to experience a vast array of social situations. If they are sheltered throughout their high school years, they could be headed for serious trouble. Parents can teach their children right from wrong all they want, but they have to make certain decisions on their own. Children need to understand conflicts between others and be involved in different social situations. These things simply do not happen if they are going to school at home.
Taking all these things into consideration, home-schooled children should not be allowed to participate in high school athletics. Currently, only sixteen states in the country allow home-schooled students to play in their area high schools, and this number should continue to stay down. Florida is one of states that has passed law which allows the students to participate ("Tim Tebow Bill"). Tim Tebow, freshman phenomenon on the University of Florida football team, was one of these home-schooled students who played for his local high school. Playing in high school allowed him to garner enough attention to eventually play for the Florida Gators, but he is most likely experiencing a huge culture shock in college at this point.
Home-schooled children who play at a local high school cannot comprehend the pride and tradition in a school if they do not attend that particular institution. They do not go to class with their teammates or experience social situations with them on a regular basis. While other team members are in school experiencing different things and interacting with others, home-schooled children are sitting in their living rooms being taught algebra by their mothers. The parents of these children also serve as their sole authority figures, so how are they going to be able to deal with upset coaches when they miss a blocking assignment or fumble the football? It is simply not possible. Children need to be in the public school system to prepare them for life after high school, whether it is college or the workforce. With respect to athletics, if one wants to play for the high school team, they should attend the high school. Home-schooled children should not be allowed to play because they really are not a part of the particular institution in the first place.
Published by Rob DuBard
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14 Comments
Post a CommentI agree with the other people who have commented on this article. It is well written, but you clearly have no idea what homeschooling is really like. I think you should actually talk to homeschooling students and parents so you know what homeschooling is actually like instead of writing strawman articles. Only a TINY fraction of homeschooled students actually spend 8 or 9 hours inside the house doing schoolwork and have no social skills. Most of us are very social. Some of us are involved in more activities (church, sports, classes outside of home, fieldtrips, parties and dances, volunteer or paid work, clubs, and just hanging out) than the majority of students in public or private school. Homeschooling is a great opportunity for students at every grade level. I have been homeschooled since first grade and plan on continuing throughout the rest of high school. I have always had homeschooled, private-schooled, and public-schooled friends of all ages, and that is true for almost
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Help...My brother in law and his wife want to homeschool their daughter...They think only a letter to the school board will get her started...School starts 8/20, they just sent the request via fax to the school board. Everywhere I ready says 30 day prior to the school year. We asked how she wil be taught, they said she will do it herself. Her father barely speaks English but her mother has a better grasp of the language. What will be the best way to have a secular education as they are not Christian and a lot of the homeschool information is geared towards Christanity...Please help...I want them to be full informed before my niece is left out in the cold with uniformed parents..email me the advise
Your argument would make sense, if homeschoolers actually did that. You have no idea at all what you're talking about. You are grossly uninformed, ignorant, and should not be writing articles.
A couple people do that. But really, none of them do.
I'm unschooled -taking my education in to my own hands- and I can deal with the real world. Not the "real world" that you schoolers are supposedly being prepared for, but the real world that I'm out in every day while you're locked inside your school building, having your life regulated away.
I liked your first page but the rest is like much of the biast thinking towards homeschooling I have heard for a number of years. As for homeschooling children to play in organized public school sports, I say then have the state give me back the $10,000+ per student it gets for my child each year--who is not attending the county school. Check out a very good book called The Well Trained Mind written by Susan Wise Bauer a college professor who was homeschooled by her parents. Sports is not everything.
Mark another one down that thinks you are HIGHLY uninformed when it comes to homeschooling. Alot of us in the homeschooling community actually have the saying "If it's called HOME schooling then why am I never home"? Please learn about something in the future before you post about it. As for this post, I just wish there was a "0" rating because it is that offensive to me as a homeschooling parent.
I tend to agree with the other commentors that you are uninformed about homeschooling. I homeschool my 12 yo son, who not only plays sports but is also in the ROTC. Your theory that it takes a high school to form and adult is completely incorrect. My son has had to deal with more social issues that most high school students, because he is not in school. We met disabled people, mentally handicapped people, old people, young people, etc. Also, it does not take hours to study to help our children, we either learn right along with them, or call our peers for help. I have had the privilage to re-learn a lot of math and history that I had forgotten.
Forgot to mention, as opposed to being taught algebra by my mother, I attended a co-op highschool made up of other homeschoolers, and was taught algebra by a homeschooling father with a degree in engineering!
I agree with the other 2. I am a homeschooled senior, and I am definitely not undersocialized! I am involved extensively in my church, I volunteer at a museum and state park, and I also take nine hours at a local college in which I have an A average and am well liked by classmates and teachers alike. Did I mention that I'm only seventeen? I also agree with Lovemykids, that if my parents pay taxes that support the school, then I should be allowed to participate in the activities they pay for.
Great points ILoveMyKids. :)