Homeschool: Are You the Right Parent for the Job?

Should Every Parent Homeschool?

Lyn Lomasi
If you came across this article, chances are you are wondering about homeschooling your child. Are you the right parent for the job? Can any parent teach? Should every parent homeschool? These questions may be running through your mind. As a seasoned parent, homeschool teacher, and advocate for choice in education, perhaps my advice and experience can help you make this difficult and important decision.

What Does it Take to be a Homeschool Teacher?
While I am an advocate for choice in education, including homeschool, I am not going to sugar coat things to entice others to do what I do. I will not tell you that it's easy. If anything, the homeschool choice can make some things more complicated. It takes hard work and dedication from both the parents (and/or homeschool teacher) as well as the children. Though it is not easy, in my opinion, the main things required of a parent are willingness, love, and a commitment to their child's educational needs. I feel any parent with those three things may be the right candidate to be a homeschool parent and teacher.

Do I Need a Teaching Degree to Homeschool?
Because laws can change and because not all states will have the same laws, this is not necessarily a yes or no answer. Check with your state's local school board, as well as homeschool organizations for this information. The Homeschool Legal Defense Association (HSLDA) is also a great place to keep up with legalities and other aspects of homeschool. As for whether or not a parent has the ability to teach without a degree, read "Can a Parent Be a Homeschool Teacher Without a Degree?" for my opinion and research on that matter. In short, the answer is yes, it is possible.

Should All Parents Homeschool?
Asking if all parents should homeschool is similar to asking if all people should be on a basketball team. Not everyone has the talent to do so, but those who do should definitely exercise it. I believe that homeschooling is the best choice when parents are able to sufficiently educate the children and have the dedication it takes to do so. But, just like all people do not make great parents, athletes, or singers, not all people make great homeschool teachers.

How Do I Know if I'm the Right Parent for the Job?
If you can remain dedicated to doing what's best for your child's education you may be able to homeschool. Research to see what other homeschoolers are doing and ask yourself if you can do similar things. You may consider the following questions. Do I have patience for teaching my child? Will I be sure to find proper resources when I don't know a lesson my child needs to learn? Can I keep my child involved in social activities? Those are just some of the many things you will need to think about. There is no exact formula of determining who should homeschool. However, doing research and thinking about what's involved and whether it works for your family and situation can help.

Other Homeschool Articles That May Be Helpful

Should You Change the Way Your Child is Educated Next Year?
http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/803245/should_you_change_the_way_your_child.html

Homeschool FAQ: Common Myths and Questions
http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/2171883/homeschool_faq_common_myths_and_questions.html

Can a Parent Be a Homeschool Teacher Without a Degree?
http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/518645/can_a_parent_be_a_homeschool_teacher.html

Choice in Education May Increase School Success in Kids
http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/2227829/choice_in_education_may_increase_school.html

The Social Scene for Homeschooled Teens
http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/2436244/the_social_scene_for_homeschooled_teens.html

Published by Lyn Lomasi - Featured Contributor in Lifestyle

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  • Carol Bengle Gilbert 1/15/2010

    LOL! Not according to my daughter, who happily reintegrated into public school after 1/2 year of homeschooling.

  • Pat Bartels 1/14/2010

    Good article on homeschooling. My daughter-in-law is considering this.

  • Kim Keason 1/13/2010

    My husband has suggested (more than once) that I should homeschool. I don't have as much confidence in my abilities as he does. This definitely gives me a lot to think about!

  • Cheryl Loux 1/13/2010

    AWESOME insight. I really like this article. Homeschooling is hard and it's not for everyone. And if you are a person considering this, DUE LOTS OF RESEARCH. It is definitely okay if you decide it's not right for you. It took me about two years to decide I was going to homeschool. It was not an easy choice.

  • Patricia Sicilia 1/13/2010

    Homeschooling is a wonderful program, but it is definitely not for everyone.

  • Julie Darleen 1/12/2010

    Homeschooling is awesome but it most certainly is not for everyone-good article.

  • T. Hillukka 1/12/2010

    I have a couple aunts who homeschool their kids. It's definitely not for everyone!

  • Wendy Dawn 1/12/2010

    Well written. It is not for the weak of heart. Took one through high school (got into college no problem) and the other through middle. Whew - He went to public high school. It was time. You are right, thoroughly investigate all aspects of homeschooling before you begin.

  • Charlotte Kuchinsky 1/12/2010

    I'll learn to be good at it if I have to, which may be the case if American education continues to spiral out of control. I'm not having my grandchildren raised as mindless robots who can't think for themselves.

  • Abby Greenhill 1/12/2010

    I didn't have kids so I never had to make a choice about homeschooling or not. I can only imagine the work involved!

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