Homeschool Tips: Can 'Free' Schooling or Unschooling Help My Child Succeed in Life?

Y! Lyn
Free schooling or unschooling is becoming a more popular choice as parents and teachers struggle to find enjoyable ways for kids to learn. Often, you will see these methods associated with homeschooling. But that is not always the case. Not all homeschoolers use unschooling and not all free schoolers are homeschooled. Can this method help children succeed in life?

What is 'free schooling' or 'unschooling'? This schooling method does not mean the child is not getting an education. It is the belief of many parents and educational professionals that free schooling enhances self-reliance and leadership. In simple terms, it is a method (usually adapted by homeschool families) that encourages child-directed learning. Although some schools, such as Jefferson County Open School (Lakewood, Colo.) and Armathwaite Community School (Cumbria, U.K.) are adapting independent learning methods as well. Because of the ability to learn freely, the way in which each individual employs this method can vary significantly. But the main point is to learn from everything and encourage independent study skills. Some unschoolers use textbooks and worksheets, while others may not.

What makes parents choose unschooling or free schooling with so many other options? As a parent who implements many aspects of free schooling, I find that it encourages children to be leaders in life. When my children grow up, I want them to think for themselves and stay ahead of the competition. Writer Kathy Foust says "Hunter is a hands on learner that is devoted to science. I am a believer in making education into a fun, lifelong process. I combined those two things to develop his curriculum." Her son is currently in public school, but has been homeschooled previously, using more hands-on methods.

"Hunter loves science and hates worksheets of any kind. So, everything we did, we did with science. Since science is really all about observation and experimentation with a focus on recording steps, I used that to our advantage," adds Kathy in regards to forgoing more traditional paper and pencil methods. "I used this method with my child in particular because I know that children all learn in different ways and that for things to be understood by anyone, they must be presented on a level that that person has an interest and understanding in. I want my child to not be a sheep, but a shepherd and to learn to think for himself and question things rather than simply accepting them because they are told to him. As a result, Hunter is able to stand up for his own values and beliefs rather than simply accepting situations surrounding him."

How can parents implement free schooling to teach their kids? Think of everything as an opportunity to learn. If you find an interesting tree or leaf on a walk, take time out to talk about it. If you don;t know what it is, study the item and look it up later to learn more. According to Kathy, her and her son "created a science notebook and every experiment was done with a detailed explanation of every step of the scientific process. In this way, Hunter was made to feel as if he was doing 'grown up' things in his own "lab" and didn't realize that he was developing math and writing skills along the way. Our discussions and experiments with plants and animals brought history, geography and social studies into the lessons. His natural curiosity about all things 'sciency' gave him a great pull toward reading. Keep in mind that this is 1st grade-in our public schools Hunter is just now given a science course in 4th grade!"

Are there benefits to unschooling? As with any other schooling method, there are benefits, as well as drawbacks. What they are is going to depend a great deal on each family, each child, and whether this method fits in with the family's current lifestyle. One thing Kathy mentioned is "an enormous difference in the way that he responds to the world as compared to other children his age who have always gone to public school. He has a very well developed sense of right and wrong and tends to gravitate toward the underdog, often defending those that would otherwise simply take abuse from others. He also constantly questions why things happen and understands that it's not the failing of a test that matters, but the corrections that are made to the test that enhance his understanding of the material-something that is not offered to him in public school. In short, Hunter is able to see the 'big picture' much clearer because of homeschooling. He knows he has goals to meet and that sometimes what society expects from him in that moment are not as important as what he expects from himself in EVERY moment."

More on this topic:

Individualized Homeschool Curriculums by Kathy Foust

Questions Kids May Have when Switching to Unschooling by Lyn Lomasi

Homeschool Tips: How to Reorganize a Failing Plan by Lyn Lomasi

Sources:

personal experience as a homeschool teacher who implements some unschooling techniques

e-interview of Kathy Foust via facebook on Dec. 4, 2010

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  • Charlotte Kuchinsky1/6/2011

    Another great piece of work, Lyn.

  • Lyn Lomasi1/5/2011

    Aww thanks everyone! I will have to check out your blog, Tina. :)

  • Angel's Advocate1/5/2011

    Inspiring. I'm about to write an article right now =)

  • Tina Szybisty, RD1/4/2011

    This was great Lyn. I recommended this article on my blog: http://tinawriter.blogspot.com

  • James R. Coffey1/3/2011

    There are a dozen ways to learn . . .

  • Millie Green1/3/2011

    I have learned everything I know through unschooling. I would love to take my son out of school and be an unschooling family. My hubs does not agree, and I have had to put the subject out of my heart. Now you have got me wondering if it would be possible to change his mind.

  • Candes King Meisenheimer1/3/2011

    I have know more kids that where 'indoctrinated' religiously who went the public schools than who were homeschooled. And I don't think it's the sharing of faith that's a problem, it the denying the existence of any other faith. But, no matter what educational venue a parent chooses for their child, they have the right to raise their children in whatever faith they choose. We're secular homeschoolers, but we spend a lot of time with Christian homeschoolers. None of them have been closed minded. In fact, we cross-teach science/religion as groups quite often. As for critical thinking, Lyn is right, free schooling emphasizes it, not prohibits it. Kids have think. They have to make decisions, because if they do not they will end up doing nothing.

  • Lyn Lomasi1/3/2011

    Allana, try looking for an 'open school' in your area. Not sure where you are located, but if you're in Colorado, Jefferson County Open School (linked in the article) could be an option. We're looking into it for the kids as either a temporary or permanent solution for when I get back into school (very, very soon). It's run by the public school system, but operates in a different way.

  • Allana Calhoun1/3/2011

    I definitely see benefits to this type of schooling. Unfortunately it would be rather difficult for public schools to adapt a free schooling program to the general populace of students because there are far too many variables involved. I know it could help my kids. One who knows what she learns but has problems taking tests. 1 who gets bored with the homework to the point that she avoids it (totally like I was at her age - lol). And one who just doesn't have the focus unless it is a subject he really likes.

  • Lyn Lomasi1/3/2011

    Thanks Kathy - for the compliment and for your part in this. Unschooling can definitely be confusing to some people. Oftentimes, people think it means the kids are not learning because there are sometimes no textbooks etc. Sometimes people also assume all homeschoolers use unschooling, which is also not true. I think you did a very good job explaining how you used unschooling with Hunter.

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