Look For Flaws
Take a look at the way you are doing things now. Figure out which things are not working as planned or needed. Write down all of those things so they can be re-planned later. Think about why each item is not going as you thought it would. Write down those reasons and think about what can be done to reverse the outcome.
What's Going Well?
Check your schedule or plan to see which things are going well. Even in a failed plan, there will be some things that do go well. Take note of these things by making a list. Go over them and think about what is making them work. Write down those things for hints on how to reverse the results of other parts of the pan that don't go right.
Are You Trying To Do Too Much?
When examining your plan, you may find you are simply trying to squeeze too much into each day. Try breaking up elective courses or extra learning into increments of less time or alternating days between them. It's alright to have plenty of electives ad extra learning mixed in with what's required. But it's not alright to overwhelm the kids with too much work. Doing so, might actually decrease what is learned. Find a balance that allows the kids to expand their horizons without pressuring them.
Is Learning Time Too Short?
On the other hand, if your school day is short and your child does not seem to be processing things correctly, you may need to add more time. A child who is struggling to learn may need more time to do lessons than one who is not. Also, each child is different. Some kids will learn a great deal in a short time. Yet others may need an entire day of schoolwork. Examine your children individually to determine the appropriate amount of time for learning.
Remember that a Failed Plan Does Not Make You a Failure
Remember that just because you need to make some adjustments to your plan does not mean you have failed as a parent and home school teacher. Not every plan is going to be perfect and the same would be true regardless of whether your child is in home school or traditional school. Each child is different. Part of the blessing that comes with home school is that you can change the plan.
This can occur as often as needed to custom fit your child until you get the right one. Sometimes even the right one will change as time goes on and your child's needs change. The fact that you have noticed it needs adjusting does not make you a failure or symbolize that your child shouldn't be homeschooled. It actually is a sign that you are a good parent and home school teacher.
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25 Comments
Post a CommentGood article...my daughter is homeschooling for the first time this year! Kids are 13 and 9! I am checking in with all my friends before I leave again for 4 days! Between hospital runs south and my travel plans I have been away far too much. My iPod Touch doesn't allow me to post comments but I can read...and with long hours in the hospital (thank goodness for free Wifi) reading AC articles and lovely poetry keeps me sane!!
Lyn, where were you when we homeschooled?
This article should be reassuring to the homeschoolers out there who feel like what they're doing isn't quite working. Great work Lyn!
It's very important to think critically about our own activities personally and professionally. Great guide.
excellent list of things to consider - good reminders.
Great Article- Even though my Grandchild attends public school- I utilize many of your ideas in teaching her on the fly. My goal is to help instruct all of my grandchildren in learning to speak Spanish and English, for that matter, fluently.
Great article, Lyn.
You've added a twist to the old saying, "If at first you don't succeed..." In your case, the ending would be, "adjust and implement."
Maria, unschooling is a method of homeschooling that is child-led rather than curriculum-directed. Start with this website for some info: http://www.unschooling.com/library/faq/index.shtml
What's an "unschooler"?